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Pearl’s Gem

Westporters are used to seeing art everywhere.

Thanks to WestPAC — the Westport Public Art Collections — we enjoy museum-quality pieces in our schools, Town Hall, even fire headquarters.

Murals by noted local artists hang in Patagonia and Banana Republic.

Now art while you eat is on the Pearl at Longshore menu.

Gallery@Pearl hangs in the handsome lobby space of the popular restaurant. Exhibits vary in media, and rotate every 10 to 12 weeks.

The works are the brainchild of Cathy Colgan. As an arts events producer for the Westport Downtown Merchants Association — think the Fine Arts Festival and Art About Town — she developed a deep appreciation for the depth of talented artists in our community, and their desire to show their work in varied venues.

“Morning Glow” by Dale Najarian.

Pearl was happy to help. So far Nancy Landauer, Sholeh Janati, Janet Samuels and Elizabeth Marks have all exhibited.

This Tuesday (September 12, 5 to 7 p.m.), Pearl kicks off a show by talented painter Dale Najarian. She paints abstract landscapes of local scenes, like Compo Beach. All work is for sale, and will be up through November.

But Pearl is more than just a place to eat (and see art). Like many local businesses, it’s embedded in the community.

Several times a year, for instance, Pearl hosts the philanthropic group Women Who Care. Last week, while munching on complimentary food on the porch — a space usually filled with paying diners — members voted to award $10,000 to Fairfield County Hospice House.

Last weekend, Pearl was the site for a Summer Soiree. The sold-out fundraiser for Westport and Fairfield first responders raised more than $10,000.

The recipients — including Westport Police Chief Foti Koskinas and Fire Chief Rob Yost — promptly decided to send the funds to their counterparts in Houston. Right now, they need it more than we do.

It was a feel good/do good moment for all.

And — despite the rain — the setting wasn’t too shabby either.

Here’s How To Help

It’s a beautiful weekend in Westport. We’ve got the Slice of Saugatuck and Westport Country Playhouse gala to look forward to — along with the usual beach and sports activities, plus everything else under the sun.

Elsewhere in the hemisphere, people are hurting.

“Give a Little Love” with these chocolates — and help hurricane victims.

Here are a few ways Westporters can aid victims of Hurricanes Harvey and Irma. If you know other ways to help — including those affected by the Mexican earthquake — click “Comments” below.

Aarti Khosla, owner of Le Rouge — the artisan chocolate shop at 190 Main Street — is donating 50% of the proceeds from her ongoing “Give a Little Love” handmade hearts campaign to OneAmericaAppeal.

That’s the effort by all 5 living former ex-presidents — Barack Obama, George W. Bush, Bill Clinton, George H.W. Bush and Jimmy Carter — to provide aid to Houston.

Dolores Catania

On Sunday, September 17 (5 to 7 p.m., Terrain Garden Cafe, 561 Post Road East), Dolores Catania from “The Real Housewives of New Jersey” and Angela Pantalone, owner of the Wag Central indoor dog facility, will talk about how they took life challenges and made their own empires.

The event raises money for Harvey and Irma victims. Click here for ticket information.

PS: Le Rouge also has 40 “Hate Has No Home” here yard signs. Pick yours up now!

Armelle Pouriche-Daniels: Report From St. Martin

Armelle Pouriche-Daniels is a French citizen, and a longtime Westport resident. Her mother, Daniele Chappuy, lives on St. Martin — the half-French, half-Dutch Caribbean island that was flattened by Hurricane Irma.

Armelle Daniels (right) and her mother Daniele Chappuy this spring.

Hours after the devastation, Armelle finally spoke with her mother (someone was kind enough to let her charge her phone for a few minutes with a small gas generator). Armelle says:

My mother is unharmed, and in very good spirits. She is staying with a friend, as her beachfront apartment was completely destroyed.

Structures are completely soaked in water. Everything inside was swept away by the ocean and winds: furniture, clothes, appliances, toilets and plumbing. Her cars are gone too.

There is no water or electricity on the island, except for a few spots like the hospital. There is no more gas, and food is running low. Stores are all closed. Looting is rampant.

The French army has been deployed to help and bring supplies, but has not yet arrived. People are homeless, hungry and desperate. In those situations the best comes out in some people, and the worst in others.

One scene of devastation on St. Martin …

People on the islands are always told “the big one” is coming, but it ends up being just big waves, and a bit of water and sand in the house. Nobody believed this one was real.

Tourists will not be able to return for 2 years. The residence where my mother lives will take 1-2 years to rebuild. Given  how long it took for the island to recover from 1993’s Hurricane Luis, I think those estimates are very optimistic.

Mom was laughing on the phone, recounting her “shopping experience.” Shopping in St. Martin now consists of walking on the beach and hoping to find what you are looking for. In her case, it was a bar of soap.

She also found a pair of jeans that looked familiar. They were hers — with $3.20 in the pocket that will “come in handy.”

… and another.

She has not changed. She is keeping it all together, trying to cheer everyone up. She does not want us to go there (and there are no flights, or places to stay).

She is not considering coming to stay with us right away. She needs to take care of everything locally first.

Thank you to all who have offered to help. There is no immediate need. For now Mom is inventorying her losses. When communications are re-established, she will be in contact with her insurer.

Mom’s main source of income were her rentals. Once that is sorted out, my husband Jim and I will be here for her.

We appreciate everyone’s thoughts, offers to help, and prayers. Above all, we thank God for my mom’s — and others’ — safety.

Bob Knoebel’s Dreamer

For 29 years, Bob Knoebel was a revered Westport YMCA Water Rats swim coach and aquatics director. The 1971 Staples High School graduate now enjoys a 2nd career in Idaho, as an equally well-respected fishing guide.

Bob is also the godfather of a young man named Enrique. In the wake of President Trump’s decision to end DACA — the Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals program for 800,000 people — he sent along these thoughts:

If you grew up in Westport, you were accustomed to your mom driving you to soccer or swimming practice, making sure you were at your games or meets on time.

Your parents were at every game. They cheered — or better yet, acted as volunteer coaches or officials.

Bob Knoebel

They also made sure you had everything you needed to succeed in school — the proper supplies, a dedicated place to study — and had regular contact with your teachers.

You took music lessons, dance lessons, swimming lessons or became an Eagle Scout. Your parents were probably college educated, and helped you navigate the college process.

Even if you didn’t realize it, they were looking over your shoulder — just to make sure. Lucky you, lucky me for being fortunate enough to grow up in Westport and graduate from Staples.

Imagine for a moment your parents don’t speak English. They have less than a high school education. You live in a trailer.

At 9 years old you missed a soccer game because you had to act as an interpreter/negotiator for your dad when he bought a goat from a local rancher, or needed you to go to the junkyard to do the same for parts for the family truck.

Your most important role in the family is what you can provide in terms of financial support.

To top it off, your mom doesn’t drive.

Imagine if you lived in fear that ICE might show up at your home to deport your mom or dad. Imagine the relief you would feel if you were offered a level of protection that the Obama-era program known as DACA provided you.

You could do the things your schoolmates take for granted, like get a driver’s license or summer job.

I am the “padrino” (godfather) for Enrique, a DACA-protected 17-year-old who is a high school senior here in Idaho.

He has more grit than you came imagine, because of challenges like these. He has completed 5 AP courses, and is taking 3 more this year. He started a tutoring program at the middle school to help other 1st-generation college  hopefuls, and recruited friends to help.

Enrique is a top student.

Enrique works after school, interning at an engineering firm. He plays saxophone in the band, and belongs to the National Honor Society and Key Club.

Trout Unlimited chose him last summer to attend a national leadership conference in Montana.

Bob Knoebel and Enrique.

He is the first Hispanic player on his high school lacrosse team, and was the top-scoring underclassman last year.

Enrique wants to go to college. Not because he hopes to change the world, but for a more humble reason: to help his family.

He’s counting on a scholarship to a private university, because he does not qualify for in-state tuition at Idaho schools.

He never complains, gets stressed or worries about his future, because he believes in the goodness of America and the promises it offers to those who work hard.

He’s not worried that the Trump administration has announced an end to DACA. He believes that Congress will act with compassion when deciding his fture, and that of 800,000 others.

In a senior class of just over 200, there are 14 other DACA-protected students alone.

It’s a world away from Staples.

But it’s Enrique’s reality. He is making the best of it.

Among many other things, Enrique is a star lacrosse player.

Joseph Oyebog Serves Tennis

Joseph Oyebog — former Davis Cup tennis player and Cameroon national champion — is a beloved local tennis coach.

The youngest of 6 children, he learned the sport using a racquet made of discarded wood, using tennis balls found in the tall grass outside a club in his home country.

Joseph Oyebog

Since 1999, while teaching tennis in the US, he has forged relationships between the Cameroon government, club owners and American supporters. His Oyebog Tennis Academy in Africa has taught tennis to thousands of youngsters. Twenty have earned college scholarships, or obtained coaching positions in the US and Europe.

Now a US citizen, Oyebog continues to help. For nearly 2 decades he has traveled between his homeland and his adopted nation. Nearly every penny he earns goes into his foundation.

His dream is to build a school around the tennis academy. He wants to hire teachers, and bring hope and jobs to children who grow up with very little.

Right now, the garages of 6 Westport families are filled with tennis gear and donations for children in Cameroon. But Oyebog’s OTA non-profit has run out of funds to ship the goods overseas.

Oyebog’s Westport friends hope to keep his dream alive. They’ve started a GoFundMe campaign.

They know there are many worthy causes that “06880” readers donate to.

But they also know that plenty of readers play tennis, and understand the power of sport to improve lives.

Game on!

(Click here for more information on the GoFundMe campaign, or to contribute.)

Jacob Meisel, Hurricane Irma And Bloomberg News

When Bloomberg wants accurate information they go to the best.

For the latest info on Hurricane Irma, that means Jacob Meisel.

The 2013 Staples High School grad — now chief meteorologist at Bespoke Investment Group — combined technical talk with layman’s terms, for this morning’s national audience.

He says Irma has “the perfect conditions to maintain incredible intensity.”

For the full video, click here.

(Hat tip: Jim Goodrich)

Unsung Hero #14

As a new school year begins, it’s appropriate that this week’s Unsung Hero is a former teacher.

Generations of Staples High School students revered Gerry Kuroghlian. For nearly 40 years, “Dr. K” — his doctorate was from the University of Illinois, with an undergrad degree from the University of Virginia — taught Westport teenagers how to write, how to think, and how to act.

Dr. Gerry Kuroghlian

His challenging classes like “Myth and Bible” were as demanding as college-level courses. But he never forgot that he was working with still-unformed boys and girls. His greatest delight came from helping mold them into active, concerned citizens of the world.

Kuroghlian was totally invested in the life of Staples. If there was a play, concert or athletic event, he was there.

He never missed an Eagle Scout ceremony, celebratory dinner or parent’s funeral either.

When Kuroghlian retired in 2008, some people wondered how he’d fill his days.

They needn’t have worried.

Kuroghlian quickly became one of Mercy Learning Center‘s most active volunteers.

He taught ESL at the heralded Bridgeport women’s literacy and life-skills center. His new students — women from Mexico, Bangladesh and all points in between — loved him.

He returned the admiration.

“These are heroic people,” Kuroghlian says admiringly. “They’re moms, housekeepers, breadwinners — they do it all. They’ve got multi-tasking down to a science.

Kuroghlian calls these women “the best students I’ve ever had. They get up, get their kids ready for school, catch a city bus, and arrive promptly by 9 a.m.

“No one is ever late. No one ever has not done the homework,” he says admiringly. “They’re motivated to learn, and they’re completely unafraid to ask questions if they don’t understand something. They’re amazing.”

After class, the women work on computers. They also go on field trips. When Kuroghlian took them to a library, they learned how to get library cards for their kids.

Kuroghlian is equally involved at Kolbe Cathedral High School. He spends most afternoons at the Bridgeport private school, as a tutor, SAT and ACT advisor, and college application essay guide. Thanks in part to his help, virtually every graduate for nearly a decade has gone on to college.

Gerry Kuroghlian works with a Kolbe Cathedral senior on his college essay.

At Kolbe, Kuroghlian organizes cultural field trips to Fairfield University and New York City. Just as he did at Staples, he attends sports events, chaperones the prom, and continually shares his philosophy that it is the responsibility of each individual to make a difference.

He also arranged for over 1,000 books to be donated to the library.

In his spare time (!), Kuroghlian works with national education organizations, cancer and diabetes groups, the Westport Library and United Church of Christ.

Nearly 10 years after “retiring,” Dr. K. shows no signs of slowing down.

Why should he? He’s continuing the work he loves: Showing teenagers how to make their mark on the world, by doing it himself.

(To nominate an unsung hero, email dwoog@optonline.net. Hat tip: Lynn U. Miller)

Hurricane Harvey: Updated Most-Needed List

“06880” readers have reacted quickly to Adam Goldberg’s request for Hurricane Harvey help.

The Westporter is organizing a truckload of relief efforts for victims. He’s also donating the 30-foot truck itself, once it arrives in Texas.

Workers in Houston say that right now, the most needed items are:

  • Backpacks filled with school supplies
  • Toiletries (soap, toothpaste, shampoo, etc.)
  • New underwear and socks (for all ages)
  • Non-perishable foods
  • Cleaning supplies and scrub brushes.

People who have already told Goldberg (adam.goldberg@aquafence.com) that they’ll bring clothing to the collection point (Imperial Avenue parking lot this Saturday, September 9, 7:30 a.m. to 1 p.m.) should still do so.

But, Goldberg says, the items above are desperately needed too.

He’s gratified by the response so far.

Including the lemonade stand he saw last weekend. Children used his flyer to solicit donations.

He has no idea who they were. But — like Goldberg, and many other Westporters — they were doing whatever they can to help.

Paul Newman’s $10 Million Watch

Paul Newman’s legacy lives on in many ways.

Locally, our longtime neighbor’s dedication to theater can be seen in the handsome Westport Country Playhouse, which he and his wife Joanne Woodward lovingly helped restore.

The 39-acre Newman-Poses Nature Preserve — accessible off Bayberry Lane, near his Coleytown Road property — is one of our town’s hidden gems.

Nationally, his Hole in the Wall Gang Camp offers joy to youngsters with life-threatening illnesses, and their families.

And the Newman’s Own Foundation — based right here in town — has given half a billion dollars to charitable organizations around the globe.

The man. The legend. The US postage stamp.

But now you can have a very personal piece of Paul Newman’s legacy.

His watch.

A Rolex Daytona owned by the actor/race car driver/philanthropist/popcorn and salad dressing king is “the Mona Lisa, perhaps the most famous timepiece in the world.”

At least, that’s what the New York Times says. And that’s not fake news.

The reason it’s so valuable, the paper says, is that “for decades, no one outside the Newman family seemed to know where it was.”

Now they do.

Next month, the “lost masterpiece” is “the centerpiece of a watch auction at Phillips in New York.”

It could fetch $10 million.

According to the TimesNewman’s first watches were as low-key as his “quiet life … in leafy Westport, Conn. (He drove) a Volkswagen Beetle (albeit with a Porsche engine), and (wore) a three-piece patchwork denim ensemble when circumstances forced him to dress up.”

In 1968, Woodward gave him a 6239 model. It was “distinctive and relatively rare, featuring an exotic dial containing a number of stylish design tweaks including, most notably, the Art Deco-style numerals on the subdials that any true watch connoisseur can spot from 10 paces.”

Paul Newman’s Rolex. (Photo courtesy of the New York Times)

Apparently, Newman thought little of the gift. He “casually handed over the watch to James Cox, (his daughter) Nell’s college boyfriend at the time, one muggy summer afternoon in 1984.”

Cox was helping repair a treehouse on Newman’s property. The actor asked the time; Cox had no watch. Newman handed his over.

Cox wore it for nearly a decade, without thinking. In 1993, a Japanese man spotted it on his wrist. “Paul Newman watch!” the man said. He’d seen it on Newman’s wrist, in European fashion magazines.

The Times explains that “Newman, with his rugged good looks, no-nonsense air and, yes, really cool watch, (had become) a staple of style blogs and Pinterest boards, where the actor was hailed an all-American king of cool to rival Steve McQueen.”

But no one knew that for years the watch belonged to Newman’s daughter’s ex-boyfriend. In fact, 3 years ago, the watch site Hodinkee listed it as one of the 12 “Greatest Missing Watches” (alongside Pablo Picasso’s Jaeger-LeCoultre Triple Calendar, John Lennon’s Patek Philippe 2499 and Fidel Castro’s Rolex GMT-Master.)

Nell Newman and then-boyfriend James Cox. (Photo courtesy of New York Times)

Much later, Cox learned that his — that is, Newman’s — watch had its own Wikipedia page.

Now he’s decided to auction off the watch. He’ll give “a big portion” of the proceeds to the Nell Newman Foundation, which focuses on environmental issues.

Absentee bids have already come in.

Watch this space.

(To read the entire New York Times story, click here.)

 

[OPINION] Suggs To RTM: Vote “No” On Coyote Trapping Law

Early this morning, John Suggs — an RTM member and independent candidate for 1st selectman — sent out this email. He says he has already received 150 responses. He writes:

Tonight (Tuesday, September 5, 7:30 p.m., Town Hall), Westport’s Representative Town Meeting (RTM) will vote on a proposed ordinance that would, for the first time in almost 50 years, permit the trapping and killing of coyotes in Westport.

This has come about because of a citizen-led initiative in response to fellow town residents who have tragically lost their beloved pets to coyotes. I’m deeply sympathetic to them. No one should have to live through such a trauma. As a parent and a dog owner myself, I am also committed to finding solutions to help keep our children and pets safe from attack.

However, when I step back and analyze the bigger picture, I remain opposed to the practice this ordinance would sanction.

The unintended consequences of this ordinance means all wild and domestic animals can be maimed and injured. In fact, research shows, on average, 5 out of 7 animals caught in foothold traps proposed by this new ordinance are so-called “non-target animals” — including dogs, cats, owls, hawks and eagles. Animals that become ensnared in these traps struggle for hours or days to free themselves; dislocated joints, broken teeth and, of course, self-amputated limbs are all part of this painful outcome.

There are environmentally friendly, science-based protocols for dealing with coyote conflicts. These sustainable, humane and effective measures include: reducing and/or removing food attractants, ensuring pets are not left outside unattended, hazing habituated coyotes with loud noises, spraying water and/or throwing objects to deter them from closer contact.

I invite everyone to educate themselves about these proven, cruelty-free strategies other communities have successfully employed, as well as the unintentional consequences of foothold traps. For a superb resource please click here.

Whether you agree with Suggs or not, you can email all RTM members at once: RTMMailingList@westportct.gov. You can also click “Comments” below. Please be sure to use your full, real name.  Tonight’s hearing will be televised live on Channel 79 (Cablevision) and Channel 99 (Frontier), and livestreamed here