WestportMoms is our town’s go-to multi-platform site for all things kid-related.
Megan Rutstein and Melissa Post are on top of every event and trend.
But in addition to informing, they inspire. Their Halloween message last year was particularly note-worthy. A year later, their words are well worth repeating. They said:
This Halloween, a lot of little people will visit your home. Please be accepting!
The child who grabs more than 1 piece of candy may have poor fine motor skills.
The child who takes forever to pick out 1 piece may have motor planning issues.
The child who does not say “trick or treat!” or “thank you” may be non-verbal.
The child who looks disappointed when they see your bowl might have an allergy.
The child who isn’t wearing a costume at all may have a sensory issue or autism.
That “big” boy may appear to be an adult, but may be developmentally delayed.
Choose your words wisely. Be nice. Be patient.
This is everyone’s Halloween.

Happy Halloween!

I have given candy to every one of those children. What a great reminder 🙏👻👻🇺🇸
Excellent post! It’s not one size fits all. My little 5 year old granddaughter takes forever to pick her piece of candy. And usually people are patient with her. She works of all her decisions like that, and she gets very confused if someone tries to hurry her up.
What intelligent, caring and inspiring words. It made me stop and think. Thank you, Moms, for putting that out!
I once asked a little boy “What’s your Trick?,” and he stood on his head.
I gave him two Treats for that.
Agree,’Westport Moms’ for this Great message! 🙂
Happy Halloween!