L’Chaim, Chabad!

In early 2012, “06880” reported that the former Three Bears would turn into a Chabad Lubavitch synagogue. It would be used for prayer services, educational programs and other meetings.

The 9,180-square foot property sat on 2.73 acres, at the corner of Wilton Road and Newtown Turnpike. It was a historic site.

Three Bears Inn, in its heyday. (Photo courtesy of Westport Historical Society)

That’s where the Three Bears — with 6 fireplaces — operated from 1900 until 2009. It reopened for about 5 seconds as Tiburon restaurant, but the property was soon abandoned. Weeds sprouted on the once-stately site — parts of which still stood from its days as a stagecoach stop, 200 years earlier.

The story noted that complaints had been made by a neighbor about work being done without permits, and bright security lights infringing on neighbors.

Other concerns included traffic, wetland impacts, and exterior alterations to a historic building.

The interior of the Three Bears, from its glory days. (Postcard/Cardcow.com)

That story ran when I still permitted anonymous comments. It drew the most responses ever: 217. (The record still stands.)

They ranged far and wide. Readers waded in on Chabad’s mission, good works, and religious tolerance/intolerance in general; zoning issues like the permit process, residential neighborhoods, traffic, historic structures — even the pros and cons of anonymous comments.

What a difference 6 years makes.

As Chabad of Westport prepares for its grand opening celebration May 3 — including a ribbon-cutting ceremony with 1st Selectman Jim Marpe — the neighborhood has changed hardly at all.

The Chabad of Westport exterior, on Newtown Turnpike.

The exterior of the Three Bears has been preserved. Some of the interior wood beams and other features remain too. More than 10,000 square feet have been added, but it’s in the back, barely visible to anyone. It’s all done in traditional New England style, with a barn-type feel.

Even the parking lot has been redesigned, eliminating a dangerous entrance near Wilton Road.

The renovated space — designed by Robert Storm Architecture, and carried out by Able Construction — includes seating for 300, in a light-filled multi-function synagogue; 8 classrooms for Hebrew school; event spaces, with a special area for teenagers; a large library, and a state-of-the-art commercial kosher kitchen.

The synagogue in the back includes plenty of light.

Eight apartments above can be used by visiting lecturers, and Orthodox observers attending events on the Sabbath who are too far away to walk home. (The apartments — completely renovated — were once leased to 3 Bears dishwashers.)

A large mural gives energy to the teenagers’ space.

The building process has reinforced for local Chabad leaders the importance of its site. Over the centuries, the property has been not only a restaurant, inn and stagecoach stop, but also (possibly) a house of ill repute, says congregant Denise Torve.

To honor its history, Rabbi Yehuda Kantor and Torve are seeking artifacts to display, and memories to showcase. Photos and recollections can be sent to DeniseTorve@aol.com.

An old sign hangs proudly in the new library.

Chabad has come a long way from the days when members met in the basement of the rabbi’s home, and rented the Westport Woman’s Club for High Holy Days services.

Of course, zoning issues continue to provoke intense Westport controversy. Only the location changes.

(Chabad of Westport’s grand opening celebration is set for Thursday, May 3, 6 p.m. at 79 Newtown Turnpike. It includes a ribbon cutting, mezuzah affixing, ushering in of the Torahs, buffet dinner, music and dancing. The entire community is invited.)

9 responses to “L’Chaim, Chabad!

  1. I wonder if ANY of the efforts to preserve and protect would have been taken had not the public been outraged at the original misfeasance(maybe even malfeasance) demonstrated by the synagogue. Hooray for public outrage,rather than thanks to them that finally had their feet held to the fire.

  2. mazel tov!


  3. John F. Suggs

    As a loyal reader and proud member of this wonderful 06880 Blog community that you have created, I must respectfully point out an error in this mornings post. The record for number of comments and responses to a single post was not the Chabad story but the news of your own mom’s passing – Jo Woog – two years ago this week. The amazing and heartfelt outpouring of tributes and remembrances of that lovely woman was over 280 (and it happened after the rule stopping anonymous comments!) It was a beautiful moment and a powerful testament not only to her memory but to the strength of this 06880 community as a community that you have labored so hard to create and sustain. And it rightfully holds the record!

    May she Rest In Peace.


    • You are absolutely right, John. Thank you! Those comments touched me profoundly. They were amazing tributes. I appreciated and honored each and every one. Thank you for remembering.

  4. Let’s simply say that this story…and this lovely old property…has an happy ending…and a new beginning, for which I too, offer a resounding Mazel Tov and God’s blessings upon us all!

    It takes a village, so let’s wish them very and help them make it work.

    It’s a good thing.

  5. Hedi Lieberman

    Mazel Tov!!!!

  6. Bill Boyd (Staples '66)

    Welcome to your new sanctuary! Peace and long life!

  7. I’m glad the place got a great looking renovation, well thought out parking and driveways, and will be used for good cause. We did, however, miss yet another opportunity to modernize a busy intersection by moving historic buildings which no longer fit (the other example was the historic building at Rt33 and Rt1 intersection that should have been moved to make a left turn lane). In this case moving it 15ft back from Rt33 would have made a huge difference in visibility. The building creates a blind spot for those coming north on Newtown Pike, yet risk taking drivers insist on trying to make the right on red into fast moving traffic. Maybe we can still get a No Right on Red designation there.

  8. Chabad can thank then second Selectman Avi Kaner for successfully locating at this sight during his tenure.

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