Monthly Archives: October 2013

Remembering Andrew Accardi

In mid-March 2008, a couple dozen boys were trying out for the Staples golf team. The wind chill was 20 degrees, and coach Tom Owen told them that if they wished, they could go inside. He would not hold it against them.

A 9th grader shook uncontrollably from the cold. But he refused to quit.

“I want to finish,” Andrew Accardi told Owen.

Despite his heart, his scores were not good enough to make the very talented squad. But Owen loved Andrew’s attitude, and asked him to be the team manager.

Andrew battled more than wind and cold that day. Since age 5 — nearly 10 years earlier — he’d been fighting neuroblastoma, a brutal childhood cancer.

Andrew Accardi, doing what he loved.

Andrew Accardi, doing what he loved.

“Andrew never wanted sympathy or pity,” Owen says. “He never let on how much he was suffering. He just wanted a normal high school life.”

His golf teammates treated him exactly that way. They befriended him, joked with him, teased him.

The next year — as a sophomore — Andrew made the team. Despite frequent trips to Children’s Hospital in Philadelphia, he was a Staples golfer for the rest of high school.

He, Owen, and many friends and family members worked together on fundraisers for the hospital, to aid in neuroblastoma research. Over 4 years, “Andrew’s Army” raised hundreds of thousands of dollars.

After graduating in 2011, Andrew attended Villanova University, as a finance and marketing major. Just as at Staples, he quickly gained many friends and admirers.

This morning, Andrew lost his 15-year fight. He was 20 years old.

“I respect him greatly, for everything he did,” Owen says with emotion. “He inspired so many people. I hope kids who knew him learn never to take for granted what they have.”

Staples principal John Dodig agrees.

Andrew Accardi

Andrew Accardi

“I remember this small boy with a knit cap on. Sometimes he was here, and for weeks he was not. Each time he reappeared, students and adults welcomed him back. He walked around the building with a smile on his face.

“His biggest goal at that point in his life was to walk across the stage at graduation. Every teacher, administrator, and support person was determined to help him accomplish his goal.”

Andrew did walk across the stage. Dodig shook his hand. James Farnen, his assistant principal for 4 years, gave him a huge hug.

Andrew Felman — the current Staples golf captain — was a freshman when Andrew Accardi was a senior. When he heard the news this morning, the captain told Owen he wants the team to wear Andrew’s initials on their golf shirts this year.

What a great tribute. It will keep Andrew Accardi so close to their hearts.

Curtis King: Westport’s Newest Blessing

As the whole world knows, Bruce Springsteen is a Jersey boy.

But did you know that Curtis King — the Boss’ long-time backup singer — now lives in Westport?

King — who has performed and recorded with James Brown, Michael Jackson, Madonna, David Bowie, James Taylor, Snoop Dogg and Luciano Pavarotti (!)  — says, “I have been blessed to be in the company of some amazing people.”

Curtis King

Curtis King

Westport seems blessed to have this talented musician. (In addition to singing — “My voice is as low as the lowest guy, and as high as a girl,” he says — King plays guitar, piano, percussion and French horn, and writes songs.)

His wife lived here in the 1980s. They’ve lived all over the world — most recently in her native Puerto Rico — but moved here recently for the community and schools. (Their daughters are 9 and 6.)

King appreciates Westport’s musical heritage. He and his wife knew former residents Nick Ashford and Valerie Simpson. The other day, King ran into his old friend Joey Levine, a noted jingle producer.

Their early weeks here were eventful. His wife caught pneumonia, and they still have not found a house. (They’re living at the Westport Inn.)

But he made time last weekend to do something he’s wanted for a long time: record a song he wrote. “No Sign of Religion” — which he’s worked on, off and on, since 9/11 — is an anthem about racism, society and life.

When King met Patrick Talev, a producer whose Norwalk home includes a beautiful recording studio, the key parts fell into place.

Telev suggested the song could use children’s voices. King talked to his friend Dodie Petit, a voice teacher. She found 7 who would be great. King added his daughters and a few friends.

The children's chorus, Dodie Petit, Curtis King and the producers.

The children’s chorus, Dodie Petit, Curtis King and the producers.

The 12 — 11 girls and 1 boy — assembled on a Sunday morning. None had ever been in a recording studio. But the session went well. They sang the choruses. The result, King says, was “beautiful.”

The track will appear on “Changing Face,” King’s album project. He hopes to include Nils Lofgren — Springsteen’s guitarist — on the last track. The projected release datesis early next year.

Meanwhile, King says, “I count my blessings every day.”

Ice Cream Parlor Games

On Sunday, “06880” reported on the return of an ice cream parlor to Westport. The post was illustrated with a snippet of a menu from the old, much-loved Ice Cream Parlor downtown.

Two days later, I added Tracy Sugarman’s 1950s drawing of teenagers inside the popular hangout.

Now — thanks to Kathie Bennewitz — I’ve got an entire front cover of the menu.

Ice cream Parlor menuBut not just any menu. Kathie — the town’s art curator — says this one was signed by dozens of actors.They performed at the Westport Country Playhouse. After shows, they crossed the Post Road for a treat.

Among the names: Elizabeth Taylor. Mike Todd.  Claude Raines. Sid Caesar. Eli Wallach. Kirk Douglas. David Wayne. Dorothy Gish. Gene Tierney. Bert Lahr. Doris Day.

Imagine the stories they could dish.

(The menu is now part of the Westport Historical Society archives.)

Steamed At The Green’s Farms Station

For nearly 10 years, George Russo was a welcome presence at the Green’s Farms Railroad Station.

He served coffee, sold newspapers and traded banter with sleepy early morning commuters at the equally sleepy depot.

Last April, George was outbid for the lease. Despite scores of names on a petition to save him, Steam Cafe took over.

Green's Farms train station.

Green’s Farms train station.

This morning, commuters faced a locked door. No coffee. No papers. Not even a bathroom.

A call from “06880” to the Westport Police Department — which oversees the town’s 2 train stations — brought a swift response.

The Steam Cafe concessionaire overslept.

The cops were not happy. “The lease stipulates that if there’s a problem opening, we have to be notified,” a spokesman said. “No one told us. We’ll deal with this.”

And, the spokesman said, Steam Cafe has another issue to deal with:

“They’ve got a lot of apologies to make to their customers.”

How To Talk To Your Kids About Halloween

It’s been 3 years since Westport has celebrated a proper Halloween.

Last year’s holiday was knocked silly by Superstorm Sandy.

The year before, it was a big-ass late-October snowstorm.

Halloween, 2011

Halloween, 2011

When you’re a little kid — say, 5 or 6 — 3 years is a long time. You can’t remember to tie your shoes or where you put your juice pack, so recalling what Halloween is like — forget it.

Today, Westport children may need a little ‘splainin’. You know: the hows and whys of this peculiarly American holiday. Tell them:

  • It may not seem like it, but Halloween is for kids. Once upon a time, parents’ involvement was simple. Mom sewed a goblin costume, while Dad checked the loot for razors hidden in apples. Nowadays, it’s much more complicated. Mom buys intricate costumes, while Dad sets up a bar to serve all the other moms and dads as they accompany their kids everywhere. It’s a stress-filled day.
  • Oh, and all those decorations in the yard? Cobwebs, skeletons, witches’ brews? They’re not real. They’re not even there to scare the crap out of anyone. They’re just to impress the neighbors.

Halloween decorations

  • Speaking of neighbors, the reason we pile into cars is not to go over the river and through the woods to Grandmother’s house. It is to maximize the time/candy ratio. Studies have shown it is far more efficient to drive a couple of miles to neighborhoods with densely packed homes (email “06880” for a secret map!) than to trudge walk drive from house to house in otherwise highly regarded 1- and 2-acre-zoned areas.
  • “Trick or treat” once meant, “give me candy or I will throw toilet paper on your trees.” As trick-or-treaters morphed from tweens to teenagers, it meant, “give me candy or I will smash your pumpkin.” Now it means simply, “Give me candy. And it better be good.”

All of which explains why Mommy and Daddy need those drinks.

Tracy Sugarman’s Ice Cream Parlor

Sunday’s post about a new ice cream parlor in Saugatuck evoked moans of pleasure from everyone who remembers the old Ice Cream Parlor downtown.

Some “06880” readers stopped salivating long enough to request photos of any of its 3 locations.

None have popped up. But Laurie Sugarman-Whittier found a drawing her father — famed illustrator Tracy Sugarman — did of the interior. She thinks it’s from the mid-1950s, and ran in a magazine.

Ice Cream Parkor by Tracy Sugarman

Hit “Comments” to share your own Ice Cream Parlor recollections. Please include your full name. Your age is optional.

Little Barn Rises In Westport

First it was Dairy Queen — a once-cool high school hangout that faded over time.

Then it was Woody’s, a diner that never caught on. And Swanky Frank’s — not to be confused with its Norwalk “cousin.” And never as popular.

Since Swanky closed in June, Westporters have watched its transformation. And wondered what comes next.

The answer: The Little Barn.

Co-owners Scott  Beck and Kevin McHugh — native Westporters — are a month away from opening. Their goal is to be ready before the holidays start.

The Little Barn nears completion.

The Little Barn nears completion.

“Since Kevin sold his shares in The Little Pub in Ridgefield,” we’ve been looking for a great spot to put in a new pub concept,” Scott says.

When they heard Swanky Frank’s was available, they moved quickly.

“We loved the idea of redoing such an iconic building in Westport — particularly because we both grew up here, and spent so much time at DQ,” Scott says.

The cozy fireplace.

The cozy fireplace.

The project has been fun. They sourced materials for an “authentic look” from across the country. Now, they’re concentrating on the finishes.

The fireplaces are already in use.

The menu and ambiance is “casual and fun,” says Scott — “just like the concept: a pub in a barn.” The food will be classic pub and comfort food. That means burgers, fish and chips, steak frites, plus healthy options (“lots of salads”), tacos and wraps.

There’s a kids’ menu too.

Between them, Kevin and Scott co-own 4 other restaurants in Fairfield County: Match in SoNo, Grey Goose and The Chelsea in Fairfield, and the Spotted Horse in Westport.

Little Barn logoThe Horse sparked the recent — and continuing — Church Lane resurrection.

I’m not sure there will be new life along The Little Barn’s stretch of Post Road, between Arby’s and Fortuna’s. But Kevin and Scott have the magic touch.

I know the joint will be jumpin’.

(For the latest news on the opening date, check out The Little Barn’s Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/littlebarnct)

An All Hallows’ Memory Grove

If you drove past Evergreen Cemetery yesterday, you may have passed Saugatuck Congregational Church‘s 2nd annual All Hallows’ Fest.

Though you probably did not know what it was.

This year, the Halloween-style festival featured a “memory grove” at the cemetery (which belongs to the church). Participants were invited to bring photos, and/or create objects to honor someone’s memory.

They were hung on branches in the “grove” — an installation of found branches anchored in pots, and decorated with dried and fresh flowers and grasses. Objects included decorated wooden shapes; recycled pictures from with buttons, ribbons and beads, plus photos with names or notes on the back.

Hanging an object in the "memory grove."

Hanging an object in the “memory grove.”

Afterwards, children paraded through Winslow Park to the front lawn of the church. Snacks and games were waiting.

The grove will remain all week. All Westporters are invited to the cemetery (on Evergreen Avenue), to add their own memorial objects. Creativity is encouraged!

“Halloween has its roots in the older custom of honoring the dead,” says Rev. Alison J. Buttrick Patton of Saugatuck Church.

“We wanted to created an event that tapped into the rich history of All Hallows’ Eve.”

One small object from Evergreen Cemetery.

One small object from Evergreen Cemetery.

Not Very Democratic

Love ’em (as a sign of our vibrant political system) or hate ’em (as visual pollution), political signs are part of our landscape.

Because we have a (small-“d”) democratic process, they’re allowed to stand. In Westport, they’re legal on public property.

So — whether you support the (large “D”) Democratic candidates for first selectmen, or the Republican — you should be outraged at the sight this morning on the Sherwood Island Connector:

(Photo/Peter Propp)

(Photo/Peter Propp)

Political signs are also, of course, allowed on private property.

Word on the street is that a Garten/Kane sign was stolen recently from someone’s front lawn.

Well, not just anyone’s.

It was Helen Garten’s own yard.

If we decide, as a town, that we don’t like political signs, we can ban (or regulate) them.

We can’t, however, deface them. Or take them.

It’s not the democratic — or the Democratic, or Republican — way.

One Year After Sandy, A Community Recovers

A year ago tomorrow, Sandy tore through Westport with raging winds and historic seawater surges. William Adler, a Staples grad and longtime communications professional (UPI, The New York Times, Reader’s Digest), and his wife Olga had moved to Saugatuck Island 3 months earlier. Like many neighbors — and those on Compo Beach and Old Mill — their house was devastated.  William wrote this piece, exclusively for “06880.”

On Monday, October 29, 2012 Storm Sandy tore through town, bringing raging winds and historic seawater surges. Across Westport, 243 homes were substantially damaged. Many were rendered uninhabitable, pending repairs.

Saugatuck Island sits at the mouth of the Saugatuck River. Its 100 or so houses range from 1950s ranches to oceanfront mansions.  A giant wall of water gushed down the narrow streets, smashing through ground-floor windows and doors, depositing as much as 6 feet of water inside.

A small part of the great damage on Saugatuck Shores. (Photos/Inklings staff)

A small part of the great damage on Saugatuck Shores. (Photos/Inklings staff)

Two days later, many residents gingerly returned along Harbor Road on foot. The roadway had buckled as if in an earthquake. The only approach to the island was by cutting through yards.

Some houses were smashed or knocked off their foundations. Seawalls were toppled, their giant boulders tossed about like pebbles. The bridge onto the island was knocked off its moorings. Near the bridge, a sailboat had crashed through a living room window. Drowned rabbits were in driveways, and a dead shark sat on someone’s front stoop.

Damage inside William and Olga Adler's house was typical across Saugatuck Island. (Photo/William Adler)

Damage inside William and Olga Adler’s house was typical across Saugatuck Island. (Photo/William Adler)

Once residents made it home, the sight was just as heartbreaking. Most houses that had not been built or converted to FEMA flood elevation standards sustained water damage. Sea water destroys just about anything it touches: kitchen cabinets and appliances, furniture, floor surfaces – you name it.

Seawater had mixed with septic systems and other toxic sources. And because water surged from all sides it swirled inside houses, causing a tornado-like effect that amplified damage. Many families turned around and headed back to hotels to regroup.

In the weeks that followed, residents took stock. They were thankful to be safe. Help arrived from the Red Cross, FEMA, the Small Business Administration and, especially, the Town of Westport, which counseled victims on the daunting task of filing claims and helped streamline the process of variances for repairs.

Along the way, something wonderful happened. Island residents returned to rebuild. They created informal networks to share information and moral support.  A “stronger than the storm” determination spread widely.  It appears not a single Saugatuck Island family has left specifically because of the storm ordeal.

“The support on the island has been overwhelming,” said Larysa Chernik, who with husband Ihor had just moved from Wilton when Sandy struck. “We are lucky to have our own network of insiders on the island who provide ideas on colors, designs, vendors and anything else. We are sharing and learning from one another. For weeks we commiserated together, shared helpers and names of service providers, not to mention the coffee and donuts. We all lost so very much.”

The cost of staying is steep. Damage to homes on the island is estimated at $2-4 million. At minimum, flooded households had to hire expensive industrial-strength cleaning. Many needed  sheetrock removed, floors torn up.

An Island Way home in mid-elevation. The 1st floor was stripped back to studs, before being placed on a new, higher foundation. (Photo/William Adler)

An Island Way home in mid-elevation. The 1st floor was stripped back to studs, before being placed on a new, higher foundation. (Photo/William Adler)

Some residents elected to elevate – raising the foundation to meet FEMA storm requirements. As the house is lifted by jacks and gently placed on new, higher, moorings, substantial work must be done on every system in the house.  The State of Connecticut estimates that such projects cost $10,000 per linear foot. That works out to $150,000 to $300,000 — or much higher.

Most of the cost is not reimbursed by flood insurance, which mainly covers damage to the original structure. The process can take up to a year.

“We are trying to build smart and safe, so we went high,” Larysa said.“When we are done, we will exceed current base flood elevation by 3 feet. We hope to be more energy efficient. We found an architect who shared our vision and helped us figure out how to put back together our simple home. Neighbors stood with us and cheered as the house went up, and later as it came back down on its new foundation.”

The town has been enormously supportive of flood victims, holding seminars on FEMA and elevation procedures and providing an information phone line staffed by Michele Onofrio at the Westport Fire Department.  

The reconstructed seawall on Saugatuck Shores. (Photo/William Adler)

The reconstructed — and bigger and stronger — seawall on Saugatuck Shores. (Photo/William Adler)

By summer, things were looking up. The island’s association had completed repairs to the bridge, seawalls and roads. Amazingly, the main beach actually looked nicer, thanks to thousands of pounds of powdery sand deposited by the storm. Seawalls were bulldozed back into place, bigger and stronger.

Tony and Penny Sousa, longtime residents, organized a sprawling summer beach party for their neighbors that galvanized everyone’s determination to recover. Among those celebrating was Lisa Hartmann, another longtime resident, who said it is part of the character of people who live by the ocean to hang in through adversity.

Tony and Penny Sousa, celebration organizers. (Photo/William Adler)

Tony and Penny Sousa, celebration organizers. (Photo/William Adler)

“Most people who come to Saugatuck Island – either to live, vacation, join friends for a celebration or pass time — love it,” she said. “Many have been here a long time. They will say that living by the water is a kind of therapy.  Life is a state of mind.  Where else would they go?”

Lisa — a realtor — reports that in addition to all the houses that have been repaired, 7 new constructions are under way. Another is due to start shortly.

“It has been difficult for many people, but knowing that they have made it through is an accomplishment in itself,” Lisa said. “I believe every home was impacted financially in some way or another. You can replace things, but you cannot replace relationships that have been made because of Sandy. Our family is very happy in Saugatuck, and I just say be patient – all this will be a distant memory.  The island is just getting better.”

The island association oversaw the cleanup and repair of the bridge and other infrastructure, which cost residents about $100,000. Carole Reichhelm, the association president and a resident for nearly 40 years, said the island is now better prepared to handle future storm emergencies.

“Our board came on strong and worked together quickly to get our cleanup under way. Although our bridge floated off its foundation we had it back in place in less than 2 weeks. We learned vital information about its structure and how we can protect ourselves better. Our experience with FEMA was very positive.”

This Island Way home was in mid-elevation, with the 1st floor stripped back to studs, before being placed on a new, higher foundation.  (Photo/William Adler)

This house, on the beach at Saugatuck Island, is being elevated above FEMA requirements. (Photo/William Adler)

Carole added that she can’t remember a time when community spirit was stronger.  “In many ways, the storm brought our neighbors closer together – personally, I know more people on the island than I ever have before. We are a strong, vibrant, pretty old-fashioned neighborhood with kids on bikes, lemonade stands in summer, July 4th barbecues, paddle boarders, kayakers, sailors and a lot of people enjoying the spectacular views. If Sandy was our sacrifice for choosing to live in this place, I’d do it all over again without a second thought.”

Still, as Layrsa and Ihor prepare to finally move home, she said, “Living as a displaced person for a year is a humbling experience. You appreciate every act kindness, no matter how small. We are privileged to live in a unique community.

“The holiday caroling party has been organized, and discussions are under way for starting a movie club. The walks with our dogs continue. Everything has changed this year, except for the people we call friends and neighbors. We hope for many more safe and happy years.”

In the past year, the Adlers have elevated their home. Olga — an interior decorator — is in the process of creating “the ultimate beach house,” with energy-efficient features, solar power, a home automation system and car elevator.

Sandy deposited tons of shells along Saugatuck Island beaches, but somehow this brave little sunflower took root in the sand last summer.  (Photo/William Adler)

Sandy deposited tons of shells along Saugatuck Island beaches, but somehow this brave little sunflower took root in the sand last summer. (Photo/William Adler)