Monthly Archives: September 2010

Naked At The Y

Back in the day — the day when ladies were admitted to the Westport Y only after ringing the doorbell at a small entrance on Main Street (and even then they were allowed only into a small knitting room) — men swam naked in the pool.

It took a while to break the habit, after women received full membership.  Men routinely walked out of the locker room nude.  Their saunters were interrupted by females, who were no doubt delighted surprised at the perks their new membership brought.

That’s the kind of tale that gets told at Ambassador Club meetings.

Once a year, the Westport Weston Family Y honors its Ambassadors — anyone who has been a Y member for 25 years or more — with a lunch.  The food is one draw, but story-swapping is much more important.

The original Westport YMCA -- now called the Bedford Building.

This year’s event — the 4th annual — is set for Thursday (Sept. 16), 12 noon in the Bedford Room.  (Many Ambassadors remember when that room — in the building of the same name — was the true center of the Y.  Some may even remember Edward T. Bedford, the local philanthropist who founded the Y in 1923.)

The luncheon draws around 100 people a year — men and women.

All are fully clothed.

(If you have been a member of the Y — any Y, actually — for at least 25 years, and want to attend the lunch, contact Joan Vitali by phone at 203-226-8981, ext. 178, or email:  jvitali@westporty.org.)

Seeing Westport With Fresh Eyes

A former Westporter — who graduated from Staples in the early 1950s — recently returned, for her near-60th reunion.

She lives out of state, and has not been back for many years.  Afterward, she wrote “06880”:

Most of us don’t live there anymore, but after having many discussions with my classmates, what in the world has happened to our beautiful town!

Maybe you don’t realize it because you live there and see it every day, but it has become so seedy looking.  Main Street is a disaster.  It felt dirty and abandoned.  Town property looked neglected.

I feel so sad looking back on what was.  When I moved in the 1990s, I left a beautiful Westport.  Yes, I know it has McMansions and Compo Beach, but where in the world did its heart disappear to?

She also did not care for the Westport Inn.  “A good, moderate-priced inn is badly needed,” she said.

Despite those disappointments, our reunion-goer had a great time.

“The good news is that all the classmates who attended still had the spirit we had back in Staples,” she reported.

Compo is as scenic as ever.

Cameron Bruce Obituary And Services

Cameron Bruce died in a tragic accident outside his dorm in Kingston, Ontario on Monday.

A 2010 graduate of Staples High School, Cameron was a 1st-year student in engineering at Queen’s University in Kingston.

In his short life, Cameron left a lasting impact on those who knew him, and on the larger Westport community.  He was an accomplished musician, playing trumpet in the Norwalk Youth Symphony for 5 years, where he was the assistant principal trumpet.

He attended New England Music Camp in Sidney, Maine, for 4 years, where he formed lasting bonds with musicians from around the country.  With high school musicians from throughout Fairfield County, he was a member of the Youth Band for the United Nations in 2008 and 2009.

Cameron was an active participant in the Staples symphonic orchestra, band, and jazz band, and played taps at Memorial Day and Veterans Day ceremonies in Westport, and at the Field of Flags tribute at Saugatuck Congregational Church in June of this year.  Before taking up the trumpet, Cameron played the violin and attended the Mark O’Connor fiddle camp in Tennessee for two years.

He was a member of the Staples varsity swim team for all 4 of his years at Staples.  In his senior year Cameron was a captain of the team, an Academic All American, and a Staples Scholar Athlete.  (He played the “Star-Spangled Banner” at this past June’s banquet.)

Cameron swam the backstroke, breast stroke and individual medley, and was a finalist in both FCIAC and state LL competition in all 4 years.  He swam with the Westport Weston Family Y Water WRAT team since elementary school.  In 2010 he received the Edward T. Bedford award for Outstanding Youth at the Family Y.

At Staples Cameron was an AP Scholar with Distinction, a Commended 2010 National Merit Scholar, and he received the Staples Science Department Award for Outstanding Achievement in Forensics.

He was also active in Staples Players, in both the pit orchestra and as a One-Act Play actor in “A Wedding Story.”

And he was a dedicated “SuperFan,” an enthusiastic Staples boys soccer supporter.

Cameron was active in the Westport community, as a deacon at Saugatuck Congregational Church, and volunteering his time and musical talents at the Senior Center.

Cameron is survived by his sister Margot, his parents Linda and Iain Bruce, and his grandmother Shirley Bruce.

Visiting hours will be at Saugatuck Congregational Church on Friday September 24, 4-8 p.m.  A funeral will be held at Saugatuck Congregational Church on Saturday, September 25 at 2 p.m.  A celebration of Cameron’s life will be held during the Thanksgiving weekend in November.

Donations in Cameron’s memory may be made to the Cameron Bruce Scholarship for Trumpet at New England Music Camp, 8 Goldenrod Lane, Sidney, ME 04330, or for a grant that will be established in his memory, at Staples Tuition Grants, PO Box 5159, Westport, CT 06881-5159.

Word On The Street

Word on the street — literally — is that tomorrow afternoon the Board of Selectmen votes on a proposal to charge organizations for stringing publicity banners across Main Street.

The small-town, homey banners provide valuable information on upcoming events — and they’ve done so in an eye-catching, relatively unobtrusive way for years.

The bottom line is, of course, to add to the town’s bottom line.

But at what cost to hard-working, understaffed and underfunded groups and charities that need all the publicity they can get?

One of the many events that depends on Main Street publicity.

As The Crow Flies

As a Westport history buff — and chair of the town’s Longshore 50th committee — Scott Smith is a stickler for accuracy.

News of the Westport Historical Society’s Sept. 25 The British Are Coming! bus tour — commemorating our Revolutionary War claim to fame — brought to mind a pet peeve of his:

The lopsided, cluttered sign at the corner of Post Road East and South Compo.

As any bicyclist or jogger knows, Compo Beach is not “one mile south” of the street sign.  The British might have wished it were so — they marched all the way north from there to Danbury where they demolished an ammunition depot; burned 19 houses, 22 stores and barns; destroyed food, clothing, medical equipment, tents, candles and a printing press, then trooped all the way back to their boats moored off Compo — but it is definitely more than a mile.

Which brings to mind an important question:  If something as simple as that distance can be wrong, how accurate is everything else on all those historical markers?

Cameron Bruce

Cameron Bruce — a gifted trumpeter and swimmer, and a genuinely nice friend to many Staples students in every grade before graduating last June — died today in an accident at Queen’s University.

Cameron was a 1st-year student at the Kingston, Ontario school.

His parents, Iain and Linda, and sister Margot have not yet made plans for a memorial service.  They ask that you hold Cameron and their family in your prayers.

Cameron Bruce, playing "Taps" at this year's Memorial Day ceremony.


The Great Age Of Headroom

Sometimes, David Brooks makes me tear out what remains of my hair.

Other times I agree with him so strongly, I wish I’d written his words myself. That happened again last week, when the New York Times columnist wrote that one result of our current economic woes is that “the great age of headroom” has ended.

Yours, for only $5,825,000.

“The oversized now looks slightly ridiculous,” he writes.  “New houses had great rooms with 20-foot ceilings and entire new art forms had to be invented to fill the acres of empty overhead wall space.”

Online, the Times invited experts to respond.

Architecture professors Ellen Dunham-Jones and Jill Williamson said:

Facing the ongoing deflation of the housing bubble, it’s time to dramatically rethink the types and locations of dwellings we build….

For the past 60 years the housing market has catered to boomers with a “move-up” model providing ever-larger houses.  It worked while they were receiving raises and raising families – but not as they approach retirement.  Who wants to upsize now – especially with all of the related costs?  Instead, we see great benefits to a renewed emphasis on the lifelong use value of our homes and neighborhoods for all stages of life.

The downsizing of housing is coming at an opportune time.  Because neither of the big demographic bulges, the Boomers and Gen Y, is in prime child-rearing years, demographers predict that 75 percent to 85 percent of newly formed households through 2025 will not have kids in them.

These will be the folks controlling the market. They will be seeking more compact houses and apartments, flexible in use and located in lively settings, both in cities and in the suburban areas where the most job growth can be expected.

To adapt and prepare for a more resilient future, communities would do well to revise their zoning and subdivision codes: increase street network connectivity and walkability, eliminate lot size minimums, permit accessory dwelling units, and allow for the subdivision of large homes into duplexes, even quads.

Recognize the benefits – from reduced carbon footprints to providing options for “aging-in-community” by older residents – of building well-designed multi-unit housing, including rental, in transit-served locations.

“06880” readers are invited to join the debate.  Some questions to consider:

  • What are the pluses and minuses of super-sized houses?
  • How did these homes become the de facto standard?  Why — in these tough economic times — do they continue to be built?
  • Are they appropriate for Westport?  Will they keep selling in the near future — and longer term, as families grow smaller, and our population ages?
  • If “the great age of headroom” has ended, what will replace the current large houses?  Is another type of housing economically feasible in Westport?
  • Is Westport unique in this debate — or are we just another suburb?

Be thoughtful.  Play nice.  Don’t drag your neighbors through the mud.

The Daily Mail

My mail gets delivered around 4 p.m. — if I’m lucky.  Sometimes it’s a lot later.

I’ve heard stories that back in the day, Westporters got mail twice a day.  In the early 1900s — before the widespread adoption of telephones — people here communicated by sending postcards to each other.

“06880” reader Jill Christerson recalls twice-daily delivery of mail — and she graduated from Staples in 1974.

“When did the mail stop being delivered twice a day in Westport?” she asks.

“I know in the early ’70s it was twice a day because I had a boyfriend in Viet Nam.  I lived on Caccamo Lane, and I remember waiting for the afternoon delivery because the Air Force mail always came in the afternoon vs. morning!”

I think she’s wrong.  I don’t remember twice-daily delivery at all, except a few days before Christmas.

But Jill has a bet with a fellow Westporter, so a lot rides on this.  We’ll leave it to “06880” readers to deliver the answer.

In Honor Of Phyllis

In 2006 Phyllis Steinbrecher — revered college consultant, involved citizen and long-time cancer survivor — founded the Breast Cancer Emergency Aid Foundation.

Like its founder, BCEAF is unique.

Unlike many outstanding organizations that conduct research to find a cure, Phyllis’s group focuses on individual people.  The fund addresses the immediate, staggering financial consequences that result from a diagnosis of breast cancer.

Suddenly, some women can’t afford food for their children.  They can’t pay their bills.  Unable to work during treatment, some even lack medical insurance.

BCEAF offsets some of the expenses other human services charities might not consider.  For the past 4 years it has offered grants for expenses such as rent, utilities, specialty bras, babysitting and transportation to doctors’ appointments.

By easing some of the burdens that accompany breast cancer, BCEAF enables patients to focus on the more important challenge of getting well.

Nurses and social workers at over 20 hospitals and cancer centers in the Northeast refer patients with financial needs to BCEAF.  A grant committee reviews requests, with evaluations based on need and the availability of funds.  Grants are paid directly to the provider, not the patient.

Phyllis Steinbrecher

So far, over 400 women (and men) have been helped by BCEAF.  With the economy in rough shape, they hope to expand their reach even further this year.

Organizers hold no social events.  They appeal directly to the public — families that have been touched by cancer before, those who simply want to help, and Phyllis’ many friends.

Phyllis lost her long battle with cancer a year ago this month.  In her honor BCEAF is making this appeal, now.

It’s as special and important now as Phyllis Steinbrecher always was.

(For more information, or to make a gift, click on www.bceaf.org.  The address is PO Box 616, Westport, CT 06881; the email address is email@bceaf.org, and the phone number is 203-505-5796.)

Anne Frank’s Blog

Anne Frank wrote a diary — not a blog.

But this is the 2010s, not the 1940s.  And when Molly Ephraim — the actress who plays the teenager in the Westport Country Playhouse‘s upcoming performance of “The Diary of Anne Frank” — wanted to write about her experiences in the role, she turned to a device as natural today as a journal was during World War II.

Molly Ephraim

“An Actor’s Diary” appears on “The Playhouse Blog.”  Ephraim’s 1st entry chronicles her mad dash from Los Angeles to Westport; her less-than-dramatic initial read-through of the script, and another quick trip back to the West Coast.

Ephraim plans to describe the rehearsal process, performances, and life off stage.

Anne Frank’s diary provided an important look into the human condition.

Molly Ephraim’s blog tackles the creative process.  Along the way, we’re sure to learn more about Anne Frank too.

(“The Diary of Anne Frank” runs from Sept. 28 through Oct. 30.  For more information or ticket purchases, call 203-227-4177, or click here.)