Category Archives: Unsung Heroes

Unsung Hero #411

There are many Unsung Heroes at Homes with Hope. Today, they nominate one of their own:

Nancy Lewis first came to Homes with Hope as a volunteer through the National Charity League.

When Homes with Hope clients without cars needed help with rides, NCL could not provide them. However, Nancy said that she personally would be able to assist.

That was the beginning of over a dozen years of Nancy doing whatever is needed to help Homes with Hope clients, and the agency as a whole.

Nancy Lewis

For over 13 years, Nancy has been a mentor to a Homes with Hope parent. She supports the family in many ways. When they need Nancy, Nancy is there.

This summer, she helped one of the kids in the family get a scholarship to attend theater camp at the Westport County Playhouse.  As always, Nancy found a way to make it happen.

Nancy was also a key part of Homes with Hope’s monthly Women’s Empowerment group. She offered support to women of all ages, who came to share stories and find encouragement. Nancy always had a positive outlook, and offered kind and caring advice.

During the school year, Nancy is a regular volunteer at ASAP — Homes with Hope’s after school program — helping kids with homework and guidance, all with a spirit of joy.

As if this was not enough to keep Nancy busy, she is also a regular volunteer in the food pantry and the Gillespie Center.

Nancy has touched so many clients and staff members over such a long time.  We are all grateful for her amazing contribution of time, energy and loving support.

Congratulations, Nancy! You epitomize what “06880” admires in an unsung hero!

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Unsung Heroes #410

Longtime Westport resident Amy Schafrann writes:

I was walking with a friend on Clapboard Hill Road. Two boys —  George and Ford Nanos — on the corner of Taylor Lane were offering hot cider.

We had no cash with us. They very kindly offered it for free.

I asked the boys which charity they were collecting for. The older one, George, said, “Boston Children’s Hospital. That’s where I was treated for a brain tumor.”

He said he’s done this with his brother, and friends Jake and Tyler, for a few weeks. They’ve raised several hundred dollars.

Ford and George Nanos (Photo/Amy Schafrann)

This truly touched my heart.

Of course, I went back to donate money. What amazing boys!

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Unsung Heroes #409

On Sunday, the Staples High School boys soccer team won the state championship.

It was the 13th in the program’s storied history — but the first since 2009.

That’s a heroic achievement.

But there is so much more to the story that makes the 2025 Wreckers our Unsung Heroes of the Week.

The 2025 Staples boys soccer team. (Photo/Melissa Garrity)

For more than 8 months — from late October through early July — the program was engulfed in chaos.

A town-wide controversy over the non-renewal of the contracts of head coach Russell Oost-Lievense, and equally popular freshman coach Chris O’Dell, threatened to upend 67 years of tradition, high standards and success.

For more than 8 months, the Staples boys soccer program had no leader.

No adult leader, that is.

Into the breach strode the rising seniors.

They were confused, hurt — and angry. They felt disrespected, unheard.

But instead of complaining, these teenagers acted like the adults in the room.

The 4 incoming captains — Gabe Duque, Gabe Hellmann, Drew Hill and Dylan Shackelford — took the reins.

Captains (from left): Gabe Hellmann, Drew Hill, Dylan Shackelford, Gabe Duque. (Photo/Melissa Garrity)

They made sure the off-season weight room program ran smoothly.

They coached themselves in the Norwalk summer league — and won it all, with an undefeated record.

They ran the in-town summer Watermelon Cup league for current players and alumni, all on their own. For decades past, that had been the head coach’s job.

They kept key players from leaving the program, to play instead for outside “academy” club teams. It would have been easy to abandon the coach-less Staples program, with an uncertain future. But no one did.

In an era when too few teenagers know how, or even want, to lead, the 4 captains did so with maturity, wisdom and strength.

They were not afraid to talk about Staples soccer’s values and expectations. They held their teammates accountable.

They kept the program intact.

Staples players — Norwalk Summer League champions — with the first of 3 medals they earned this year.

Just as crucially, the rest of the team bought into it all.

Other leaders emerged. Younger players followed.

When Liam Witham was named head coach in early July, he met with the captains. They were excited. They embraced him, and together they led the team forward.

And they did it without abandoning their support and admiration for the non-renewed coaches. It was a difficult balance. Yet these teenagers did it, with grace and aplomb.

The Wreckers had a storybook season. All the ingredients for success — talent, speed, physicality, high soccer IQs, passion, poise, chemistry and heart — were there.

Still, success was not a given. They had to earn it.

And earn it they did, with a convincing march through the regular season, and the FCIAC (league) and state tournaments. Winning double championships had been done only 7 times before, by Staples boys soccer teams.

State champs! (Photo/John Walker)

On Sunday — after their decisive 3-0 win over Greenwich — the players hugged and high-fived exuberantly.

They were celebrating their state championship, sure. But — without realizing it — they were celebrating too the joy of setting a goal, committing to it, and achieving it, with tons of hard work, the maturity to look forward instead of back, and the unwavering support of each other.

This week’s Unsung Heroes award goes to the 4 captains, and all their teammates, on the 2025 Staples boys soccer team.

But calling them “boys” does not do this squad justice.

Over the past year, they proved themselves to be men.

Staples High School soccer seniors. (Photo/Melissa Garrity)

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Unsung Heroes #408

Alert — and grateful — “06880” reader Lis Hisgen writes:

As a volunteer for the Homes for Hope food pantry, the other day I was carrying a heavy box of groceries across a parking lot.

I tripped on torn-up asphalt, and dropped my keys into a grate.

Not knowing what else to do, I called my Public Works colleague. It was after regular hours, but that didn’t stop Eric Lee from driving back to work to get a magnet.

Another guy, Ben Lee — they’re father and son —  also drove back to Westport to help in case they had to remove the grate. Luckily the magnet did the trick, and my keys were rescued!

I’m lucky to have such kind and helpful co-workers.

Eric and Ben Lee: Public Works heroes.

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Unsung Heroes #407

It’s over.

Several months of interviewing for party endorsements (or collecting signatures to be on the ballot), developing positions, soliciting donations, meeting voters all over town, sitting for debates, knocking on doors, answering questions from the media, creating mailers, writing emails and notes, placing yard signs, skipping family events, and finally — last night — awaiting election results has come to an end.

(Photo/Matt Murray)

Some candidates won. Others lost.

All spent countless hours doing something most of the rest of us would never dream of doing: running for local office.

Their reasons vary: a complex mix of personality, personal goals and professional expertise.

But they always include a desire to step up and serve the town they love. And the town they think they can make even better.

To do that, they had to put themselves front and center, in a very public way. They opened up about who they are as people, and what they believe in.

They opened themselves up to criticism too. Some of it got personal, and nasty. No matter how thick-skinned anyone is, that had to hurt.

Today — the day after Election Day — our unsung heroes are every man and woman who had the desire, the energy, and the courage to run.

Westport would not be the vibrant, exciting, challenging town it is without you. Win or lose, you are all winners today.

Now go pick up your yard signs.

(Photo/Dan Woog)

And let’s not forget our Staples High students.

They had yesterday off. But 85 SLOBs — members of the school’s Service League of Boys — fanned out to all 9 polling places.

From 6 a.m. to 8 p.m., they handed out “I Voted!” stickers. It was a great lesson for them in civic involvement, and they were excited to help.

A number of students also participated in campaigns, for various candidates in a variety of offices.

Of course, we could not have provided last night’s “06880” coverage without 4 outstanding reporters: Dylan Robbin, Catherine Campagnino, Zara Saliba and Will Enquist. They rocked it.

Our future is in good — no, great — hands!

Handing out stickers at the polls (from left): Rei Seltzer, regional head of Civic Leaders of America; Owen Goldfarb, and Zach Gillman. (Photo/Aiko Nose)

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Unsung Hero #406

On Saturday, Beth Cody learned from “06880” that the next day, milling would begin on the Post Road.

Sunday was the day that the Westport Little League Challenger baseball team — the program for boys and girls ages 5-18 with physical or intellectual challenges, which Beth founded and still runs — was celebrating its 13th annual Halloween and pizza party.

Delivery normally comes from a pizzeria on the Post Road. Beth wanted to be sure the pizzas were on time, so she searched for a place closer to the field.

Her first stop opens too late on Sundays. So Beth headed to Outpost Pizza, across from Hudson Malone.

She told owner Tom Barlleci about the team, and its party. He said, sorry; they’re closed Sundays.

But when Tom saw the disappointment on Beth’s face, he said he’d come in and make the 10 pizzas.

Tom Barlleci, at Outpost Pizza.

Beth was stunned. He would really come in on his day off?

Yes, he said. He was happy to do it, for kids with special needs.

Enjoying Outpost Pizza — in costume.

“To this angel of a man; thank you!” Beth says.

And, she adds: “Be sure to visit Outpost Pizza. It was delicious, and they have a full menu of options!”

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The Challenger baseball Halloween and pizza party. (Photos/Beth Cody)

Unsung Heroes #405

Earlier this month, on a day off, the 5th graders of Saugatuck Elementary School Bus #2 collaborated on a lemonade stand.

Their goal was to raise funds for their bus driver, Ken. Specifically, they wanted to buy him an (ever popular) Owala water bottle (among other things).

Cups for Ken!

Gina Lewis — who sent along this great story — says: “Ken is patient, kind and fun. He relates to the kids, and keeps them safe at the same time.

“Being a bus driver is not the most glamorous job, or the most appreciated. It can also try your patience. But Ken greets our kids every day with a smile, and they love him.

“Here is to Ken, and all of the other Westport public school bus drivers.”

Thanks, Gina. So today’s Unsung Heroes are both our school bus drivers like Ken — and the 5th graders at Saugatuck who so thoughtfully honored their favorite.

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Unsung Heroes #404

The Colonial-era cemetery hidden in plain sight at the corner of Kings Highway North and Wilton Road is not easy to get to.

There is no parking (unless you count the private medical complex across the busy street).

It’s hilly and rocky.

But it sure is historic. It’s part of Westport’s past.

And now — after a long period of neglect — it’s been cleaned up.

Westport’s Parks & Recreation Department took on the task. The graveyard may not attract many visitors, but people have noticed.

Nearby resident Gloria Gouveia says, “At a time when it seems we are quicker to criticize than to express gratitude, 2 thumbs up to Parks & Rec and everyone responsible for the clean-up of the Kings Highway Cemetery.

“The efforts of the crew were a joy to behold. Thank you very much, from a grateful neighbor.”

Harris Falk agrees. He made his way there, and took these photos:

(Photos/Harris Falk)

Morley Boyd adds, “Wendy Crowther and I have been pleased with Parks & Rec’s response to the concerns we raised about this sacred space.

“The new parks superintendent, Nick Quatrano, got right on it and has kept us updated. Obviously, given the extreme state of disrepair that this town-owned cemetery has been permitted to fall into, it’s going to take years to adequately address.

“The good news is that Parks & Rec is open to applying for state grants. which will certainly help — especially since the current budget line for cemetery maintenance makes no allowance for anything beyond mowing.”

At a time when Westporters are looking ahead — to a new elementary school, first responders’ facility, maintenance building and more — it’s nice to know that in one corner of town government, officials are looking backward too.

Thanks, Nick and everyone at Parks & Rec. Thanks to you, the past lives on.

(To learn more about the Kings Highway cemetery, click here.)

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Unsung Hero #403

The other day, an “06880” Roundup item noted that Westport Emergency Medical Service crew chief Jay Paretzky received the Distinguished Achievement Award, at an international conference at Mohegan Sun.

He was chosen by the Connecticut EMS Council and state Office of Emergency Medical Services.

But Jay deserves another honor. He’s served our town for nearly half a century — almost all of it quietly, efficiently, and unsung.

Jay began as a volunteer Emergency Medical Technician in 1980, a few months after Westport’s EMS was founded. Over the past 45 years he has served as an EMT and crew chief, volunteering more than 30,000 hours.

Jay Paretzky

He has saved countless lives, while also contributing as a board member, CPR program coordinator, an officer and president of Westport EMS, and a member of the Connecticut EMS Advisory Board.

If you’ve been in Westport for any amount of time, you’ve probably seen him at work.

If you’ve been in Westport a while, you may well have been saved — or at least served — by him.

He doesn’t ask for thanks. He’s not a big accolades guy. (None of our EMTs and other first responders are in it for praise, either.)

But we can’t let this honor — or Jay Paretzky — go unnoticed. This week — and every one — he is our Unsung Hero.

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Unsung Heroes #402

Last week’s Unsung Heroes were the hundreds of volunteers — Westport Rotary Club members, and those with no connection at all — who made this year’s LobsterFest a $400,000 success.

This week, we broaden our lens. September and October are prime fundraising season. The Westport Country Playhouse, Earthplace, Sunrise Rotary Club, Wakeman Town Farm — they, and many other very worthy organizations, host galas, bashes, fests and more.

The venues are different: indoors, outdoors, on-site and off.

The goals are similar: to raise money for their own operations, and/or to help others.

Wakeman Town Farm’s HarvestFest is one of many fall fundraisers.

There are so many moving parts: finding sponsors, and donors for raffles and auctions (silent and live). Lining up entertainment. Arranging for food and drinks. Selling tickets. Decorations, set-up and check-in. Making everyone feel welcome, and important. Following up, and thanking everyone else profusely.

It’s easy to feel overwhelmed, with invitations to great causes. It’s simple to pick one or two, write a check, go and have a good time.

It’s really, really hard to put on an event that showcases a non-profit’s work, stands out in a crowd, provides an evening of fun, and brings in the people and funds needed to keep the organization relevant and solvent.

To all those who toil behind the scenes, helping to ensure that good works get done well: You are this week’s Unsung Heroes.

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