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Longshore Sailing School Lease: Rough Seas Ahead

A new lease for the operation of Longshore’s sailing school seemed to be cruising along.

Now, however, it may have hit choppy waters.

Residents are questioning the process by which the next 10-year lease may be awarded. The present one expired October 15. The Board of Selectwomen are scheduled to vote on Parks & Recreation Department director Jen Fava’s recommendation at their next meeting, on Wednesday (December 13, 9 a.m., Town Hall auditorium).

Bill King, Heidi McGee and John Kantor — board members of Greenwich Community Sailing, which submitted a bid to the town for the sailing school/ boat rental contract — contacted “06880” with concerns about the process. McGee and Kantor grew up in Westport, and still live here.

Separately, so did Jeff Manchester — another native Westporter, involved in a competing bid.

Longshore Sailing School (Photo copyright/Stefen Turner)

According to Manchester, RFP responses were due October 18, with feedback to come a week later.

After several delays, on November 30 3 potential suitors — the current operator, former operators currently running the Greenwich Sailing School, and a Boat Locker team — all independently met with Parks & Rec director Fava, deputy director Rick Giunta, and a sailing consultant doing business with the current operator.

On December 4, the 2 bidders received a brief message from Fava. She thanked them for their interested and said, “Upon further review, we have chosen to move forward with Longshore Sailing School” — the current operator.

Sources say that the 3rd member of the panel interviewing the RFP candidates was Stu Gilfillen, director of education for US Sailing. Sources say his department employs a leader of the current Longshore Sailing School to teach instructor training courses.

Previously, Gilfillen “liked” Longshore Sailing School’s Facebook page. “Not sure how this was not a conflict of interest,” the Greenwich group says.

After news broke of the Parks & Rec decision, reaction on social media was quick and intense. Among the comments:

  • What the hell happened here?
  • Why would the town renew its lease?
  • I am stunned and disappointed to hear this.
  • And may the worst team win. Makes you wonder what influenced the outcome.
  • This is sad in so many ways.
  • Bull****!
  • What a disaster. Were there other applicants?
  • Has anyone complained to Parks and Rec? The place is unsightly for residents who use the park.
  • I don’t understand how anyone over the age of 12 thinks this is an acceptable way to leave things.
  • WTF?!
  • Did anyone else make a bid?
  • So sorry to hear this.
  • It is dangerous for young children who play on the nearby playground.
  • Yikes! Hurts my eyes.
  • This desecrates all those shipshape awards given to students over the years.
  • It’s a law suit waiting to happen.
  • Seems a shame to sacrifice a 50-year-old institution that’s brought joy and taught work ethic to generations of CT kids. No way they can make a case to the town they are the best candidate in light of track record ( insurance ??) and literal photographic record. Frankly they are a liability to Westport and the surrounding towns’ children.
  • Supremely disappointed in this outcome.

The 2 unsuccessful bidders have independently asked for a review of the Parks  & Recreation Department selection process, “particularly given the dawning realization that there was a serious conflict of interest involved.”

They hope the Board of Selectwomen will carefully review the matter, before voting to approve the contract.

“06880” asked Parks & Recreation director Fava for a comment about the process.

She said, “The RFP referenced training and certification in accordance with standards of the United States Sailing Association. Stu Gillfillen is the director of education for US Sailing, so we reached out to him to participate in our process as his expertise pertains directly to the core of this operation.

“We do not believe there was any conflict of interest as Stu knows all of the respondents personally and all have had various affiliations with US Sailing.  Additionally, the decision was not up to Stu alone and questions from the panel were fair and consistent across the board.”

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King, McGee and Kantor described the background of the Longshore sailing program.

It began in 1960, the year Westport purchased the private Longshore Country Club.

The Westport Recreation Commission (now called the Parks & Recreation Department) ran the program until 1975. That year, “Longshore Sailing School” took it private.

At first a sole proprietorship, Kantor — its president — reorganized it in 1978, as a for-profit corporation.

It ran successfully for decades, say Kantor, McGee and King. It was a pioneer and national model for community sailing programs.

An additional location in Old Greenwich was established in 1998. Called Greenwich Community Sailing, it was sponsored by Old Greenwich Yacht Club.

In 2001 Kantor, still president of Longshore Sailing School, Inc., donated the existing building to the town of Westport. A long-term lease was granted by the Town in order to amortize its cost.

That lease expired October 15, 2023.

Longshore Sailing School (Photo/John Videler for Videler Photography)

In 2017, Longshore Sailing School’s ownership changed hands. Jane Pimentel purchased all shares of its stock (including all assets: boats, docks, tools, furniture and equipment, at both locations) from Kantor for the token amount of $10.

Kantor, King and McGee now believe that “a public program, in a municipal park, should be run by a non-profit organization. That is the standard model for community sailing programs throughout the country. Now that the long-term lease is ending and the building is fully paid for, it is the right time for change.”

The trio have concerns about boating safety at Longshore. The Sailing School, they say, taught boating safety courses since 1960. But in 2017, the new owners “abruptly” stopped offering Connecticut Boating Safety certification courses.

In 2023, LSS also removed the boating safety component (one of the 2 weeks of “Sailing One”) from the junior program’s curriculum. “Boating safety education should never be compromised in a community sailing program – and certainly not for the sake of profit,” Kantor, King and McGee say.

They also note that a non-profit could give back to the community through lower user fees, and scholarship for people needing financial help.

Furthermore, they say, Pimentel’s group closed the sailboat rental program on weekdays in mid-August for the last 2 summers — “historically, the time of peak boat rental demand.” Last summer, they continue, LSS further cut sailboat rentals on weekdays through most of June.

In 2021, Kantor and fellow Greenwich Community Sailing Board members say, Longshore Sailing School abruptly abandoned its long relationship with Greenwich. It was “a needlessly embarrassing, avoidable, and well-publicized separation. Bridges were burned. As a result, LSS lost roughly 1/3 of its revenue, and its safety net of cooperative partnership.”

The bidders call the facility a winter “eyesore” Last year, they say, “tools, sails, electronics, hoses, etc. and all manner of equipment, including gasoline containers, were left unsecured outdoors – next to the children’s playground. Kayaks were left unsecured on beach racks, windows were left open, boats were left upright and uncovered – filled with moldy leaves, snow and ice – throughout the fall and winter.”

The situation seems the same this year.

(Photos/John Kantor)

Manchester — another bidder on the RFP — says that when vendors made a pre-proposal site visit to Longshore in late September, both they and the Parks & Rec team were surprised by the lack of upkeep on town-owned land.

Manchester calls it “a huge liability to the town, for any kid who walks a few steps from the playground and is injured.” The ice skating entrance is nearby too.

He adds, “Westport residents, the new hotel operator and any visitor will be stunned to see one of the best pieces of real estate in Westport being rented out as a junkyard, for a mere $5,000 license fee per annum.”

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Unsung Hero #313

Patricia McMahon writes:

“I go religiously go to the Westport Farmers’ Market. It’s now at Gilbertie’s Herbs & Garden Center, for the winter season.

“I’ve been buying from Paul’s Custom Pet Food for my dog Levon for 2 years. Levon has heart and kidney disease, but his health has improved.

“The other day, I was chatting with Paul. He told me that he developed a recipe for his 3-year-old golden Hunter, who had cancer of the jaw. It was amazing.”

Paul Gallant, his wife Lynn Felici-Gallant, and Hunter.

A practitioner of traditional Chinese veterinary medicine — who Paul Gallant turned to after a veterinary oncologist gave a grim diagnosis of 6 months — said that as a young dog, he would need cool or neutral foods and herbs to fight the cancer. She asked if Paul and his wife Lynn were willing to cook for Hunter. “Of course,” they said.

Learning about differences between “cool” and “hot” foods; the importance of whole, chemical- and processed-free pet food, and the fundamental way that food interacts with each pet’s unique body, Paul did what he could

Hunter ate a whole-foods diet, and lived for over 10 more years. He died at home, in Paul and his wife’s arms, in 2019.

Paul Gallant and Hunter.

Today, he continues his commitment to making fresh, wholesome food for pets — including his own dog, Herbie — in Hunter’s name.

Paul prepares made-to-order therapeutic diets, 6 varieties of veterinary nutritionist-developed complete and balanced food for healthy adult dogs, 1 fresh cat food topper, 2 bone broths and 5 single-ingredient dehydrated treats.

Since 2014 he’s done it all by hand in small batches, overseeing every aspect of production. He does not use co-packers or 3rd-party manufacturers.

Recipes are prepared with ingredients sourced from local farms and businesses, and/or businesses committed to ethical practices. He uses both novel and traditional proteins from animals that were humanely raised.

Many Westporters are grateful customers of Paul’s — and grateful that he travels to Westport every week for the Farmers’ Market, from an hour away in New Milford.

“There’s usually a line of people at the Farmers’ Market, because Paul will talk to everyone,” Patricia says. “He is a lovely, lovely man.”

Thanks, Patricia. Paul sounds like a true hero to many local pet owners. For more information, email paul@paulscustompetfood.com, or call 860-912-2910.

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Roundup: Medical Supplies, Gift Cards, Club 203 …

This morning’s “06880” featured information on Westport’s holiday drive. We’re helping raise $30,000, so residents of Lyman, Ukraine can heat their homes this winter.

There’s another way to help that war-torn nation, too.

Mark Yurkiw — the noted local artist, who has Ukrainian heritage — and several Ukrainian friends in this area have spent months stockpiling medical supplies.

They’ve already sent several containers. The next is ready to go — with volunteers both here and in Ukraine —  as soon as shipping costs are covered.

They hope one or 2 major donors can underwrite the cost of shipping (and buying triage bandages). The total is $10,000.

To donate, and for more information, email Mark Yurkiw: mark.think3d@gmail.com.

Earlier this year, Mark Yurkiw collected and shipped generators to Ukraine. He collected them at his studio/barn — outside of which stood his artwork, in the country’s familiar colors.

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From now through next Tuesday (December 12), the Westport Domestic Violence Task Force is collecting gift cards for residents of the 2 Domestic Violence Crisis Center safe houses, and community clients.

Gift cards help survivors buy what they most need or want for their families.  Suggested retailers include Stop & Shop, ShopRite, Amazon, Target and Walmart. Smaller denominations ($25-$50) are encouraged. so gift cards for various stores can be bundled together for families.

Gift cards can be left at the communication center in the lobby of the Westport Police Department (50 Jesup Road), or mailed to Lieutenant Jillian Cabana at that address.

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Ovcr 150 Club 203 members and volunteers kicked up their heels, and celebrated the season with a “Holiday Hoedown” last night at MoCa Westport.

The Square Bears taught dance moves. Dessert was donated by CRUMBL. T-shirts were courtesy of Howard & Gay Insurance. And MoCA’s artwork provided the perfect backdrop, for the great event hosting Westport’s social organization for adults with disabilities.

Having a great time at the Club 203 Holiday Hoedown.

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Popular hair stylist Felicia Catale invites everyone to check out makeup, skincare, health and wellness products and hair products, at a special holiday gift event at Salon Nash this Saturday (December 9, 2:30 to 6 p.m., 179 Post Road West).

Enjoy bubbly, gifts, raffles — and free hair blowouts.

Felicia Catale

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Voices Cafe’s next concert — December 16 (4 p.m., Unitarian Universalist Congregation in Westport) — offers both great music and a good cause.

They’re collecting gifts for Bridgeport’s Helping Hands Outreach holiday toy drive. Guests are encouraged to bring an unwrapped toy or retailer gift card.

Windborne’s Music of Midwinter show has been called “intelligent, witty, formally exquisite and brimful of energy” (Slate Magazine). Lush vocals and creative arrangements draw from traditional, classic and folk from the US, British Isles and beyond. Instruments include guitars, banjos, Lithuanian kankles and Irish bodhran.

The singers educate as they entertain, sharing stories about their songs and explaining the context and characteristics of the styles in which they sing.

Click here for tickets and more information. Voices Cafe is BYO, with coffee-house style seating at tables or individual seats. Snacks are available for purchase.

Windbourne

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“The One Note Man” — George C. Siougas’ story of a musician caught between staying in his comfort zone or stepping out and changing his life forever — gets its Westport premier this Sunday (December 10, 2 p.m., Westport Library).

The local connection: Westport resident Rita Marcocci is an executive producer of the film.

Set during the holiday season, the film is a whirlwind adventure about a bassoonist whose routine never strays, playing a single note in a classical orchestra day in day out.

It stars Jason Watkins, Louisa Clein, Crystal Yu, Paul Barber, and the voice of Ian McKellen.

A talk-back follows the screening, with Marcocci, Siougas, BAFTA-winning actor Watkins, Oscar-winning composer Stephen Warbeck, and executive producer and Wilton resident Josh Friedman. Click here for more information.

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MoMA’s December 14 (7 p.m.) holiday concert features violinist Kristen Young and pianist Joe Bush.

MoMA says, “They break the rules of music by blending traditional classical music with unexpected holiday hits, together in a fresh and exciting contemporary interpretation.”

Click here for tickets, and more information.

Kristen Young and Joe Bush

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Pianist David Morgan was trained by Ellis Marsalis — father of Wynton, Branford, Delfeayo and Jason Marsalis.

This week at Jazz at the Post, Morgan pays homage to his New Orleans roots, with compositions by Ellis Marsalis, Harold Battiste, Alvin Batiste and James Black, plus a Mardi Gras preview.

He’s joined by trumpeter Antoine Drye, bassist Dan Asher, drummer Paul Francis, and saxophonist Greg “The Jazz Rabbi” Wall.

Shows are Thursday (December 7, 7:30 and 8:45 p.m.; dinner at 7; VFW Joseph J. Clinton Post 399; $15 music charge). Reservations are highly recommended: JazzatthePost@gmail.com.

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Westport resident Pamela Waesche passed away peacefully, surrounded by family, on Friday. She was 76.

Her obituary says: “Pam and her husband of 53 years, John, shared a love that transcended all life’s struggles and hardships. She was smart, loving, empathetic, and together, she and John raised 3 daughters they could not be prouder of. Her children and their families are the legacy she leaves behind.”

She met John at a 6th grade square dance in Oradell, New Jersey. She graduated from Skidmore College in 1969 with a BA in American Studies. Pam held professional positions at the Guggenheim Museum, Time Life and the Library of Congress, but she always focused on supporting her family and others.

She worked with Au Pair in America and the Westport Housing Authority, helping those in need find a home. She spent summer mornings harvesting vegetables for local soup kitchens as a member of the Greens Farms Garden Club, and cared for any animal in distress.

She is survived by her husband; daughters, sons-in-law and 9 grandchildren: Wendy, David, Kate, Lucy and Matthew Lavallee of Southport;  Dana, Jamey, Jackson, Toby and Kiley Gifford of Hillsborough, California; and Erin, George, John, Charlie and Lily DiGuido of Fairfield.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that a donation to a charity of your choice be made in her name.

Pamela Waesche

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Barry Kresch calls today’s “Westport … Naturally” phot — taken in his yard — “50 Shades of Gray.”

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And finally … in honor of today’s owl photo (above):

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Roundup: Ragtime, Beach Proposal, Army-Navy Football …

Ragtime!

Musicians and music scholars come together on December 9 (7:30 p.m., Westport Library) to discuss America’s unique genre. It’s part of Westport resident’s Roger Kaufman’s acclaimed “Speaking of Music” series.

“The Ragtime Roots of Jazz and Swing” includes live performances and expert
discussion, showing how ragtime not only seeded the growth of jazz, but formed part of the musical DNA for genres like blues, swing, R&B and rock ‘n’ roll.

The evening features performances by Miss Maybell & The Jazz Age Artistes, ragtime pianist Jeff Barnhart, Delta bluesman Jerron Paxton, and young pianist Piotr Barcz.

Barnhart and Judkins join Scott Joplin authority Ed Berlin for a panel discussion moderated by Kaufman (the grandson of prolific ragtime composer Mel B. Kaufman).

Tickets are $15. Click here to purchase, and for more information.

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If there’s something intriguing going on in town, Andrew Colabella always happens to be there.

Yesterday at Compo Beach, he saw a young couple walking near the shore.

Some balloons caught the man’s eye. “Let’s check it out,” he said to the woman.

As they got closer, she asked, “Are you proposing to me?!”

He sure was.

He got down on one knee.

She cried.

For the happy couple, this was not just another day at the beach.

(Photos/Andrew Colabella)

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Greens Farms Spirit Shop held a wine tasting yesterday.

This was the scene in the parking lot.

Ho ho ho!

(Photo/Bob Weingarten)

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VFW Joseph J. Clinton Post 399 is the very appropriate site to watch next Saturday’s Army-Navy football game.

Need more incentive? There’s a pig roast too . And a 50/50 raffle.

Doors open at noon; kickoff is 2 p.m. Tickets are $25 each.

Army and Navy active military and veterans are welcome. Also air Force, Coast Guard and Space Force service members.

And everyone else.

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Artist/landscaper/poet Marco Setti was in the Stop & Shop parking lot yesterday, showing off his latest creation: a Ken & Barbie “military jet,” built entirely by hand.

(Photo/Richard Fogel)

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Johanna Keyser Rossi makes it two in a row, with today’s “Westport … Naturally” photo. Like yesterday’s, this was taken on the banks of the Saugatuck River.

(Photo/Johanna Keyser Rossi)

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And finally … in honor of Mel B. Kaufman (Roger Kaufman’s grandfather, and an inspiration for next Saturday’s “Ragtime Roots of Swing and Jazz” show at the Westport Library — story above):

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Holiday Stroll Rings In The Season

In just 3 years, the “06880” Westport Downtown Association Holiday Stroll has become one of our town’s most cherished traditions.

Last night, over 2,000 Westporters and friends filled downtown.

Parents strolled (many with strollers). Kids raced around. Adults chatted with neighbors and friends they hadn’t seen in years.

(Photo/Jerri Graham)

The Staples Orphenians caroled, at 4 different spots.

Staples Orphenians, by Savvy + Grace. They also sang at the Tunnel of Love, Anthropologie and Sconsct Square. (Photo/Jerri Graham)

A random group of Greens Farms Elementary students added their own impromptu songs and dance.

Kids entertaining on Main Street. (Photo/Dan Woog)

Santa listened to wishes.

“06880” founder Dan Woog wished for happy holidays for all. (Photo/Jerri Graham)

A face painter worked her magic.

(Photo/Jerri Graham)

Staples Players dressed up in costumes. A 21st-century photo booth got a workout. Nearby, a firepit and s’mores offered a tasty, warm respite.

(Photo/Dan Woog)

Up and down Main Street, Church Lane and the Post Road, merchants and restaurants offered hot chocolate, wine, and special shopping deals.

(Photo/Jerri Graham)

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Art lovers at Sorelle Gallery. (Photo/Jerri Graham)

The weather was perfect for strolling, singing, and having fun.

Ho ho ho!

(Photo/Jerri Graham)

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Orphenians at Anthropologie … (Photo/Stacie Curran)

… and Sconset Square (Photo/Mary Sikorski)

 

(Photo/Jerri Graham)

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True love, at the “06880” Westport Downtown Association Holiday Stroll. (Photo/Jerri Graham)

(“06880” and the Westport Downtown Association offer great thanks to sponsors David Adams Realty and SCA Crowley, and everyone who helped).

Playing The Westport Card

What’s in your wallet?

Since this is Westport, probably a gold card, at least. Plus platinum.

Maybe even osmium, iridium, palladium and ruthenium.

Why not a Westport Card, too?

Just in time for the holiday season, it’s the newest venture from the Westport Downtown Association and Westport Weston Chamber of Commerce.

 

But it’s not entirely new.

During COVID, WestportMoms launched the “Local Love” card. This builds on that.

Recently, WDA member Lee Shufro and his son Jake — a Staples student, and part of the Westport Youth Commission — worked with Chamber director Matthew Mandell on business-building ideas.

Mandell proposed repurposing the card to be more inclusive, for all Westport merchants.

Westport Downtown Association president Maxx Crowley loved the idea. Like Mandell, he too is a champion of all local businesses.

More than 3 dozen merchants quickly signed on. More join daily. The list includes clothing, gift, toy and liquor stores; restaurants; galleries; fitness centers; spas — even the Westport Country Playhouse. Click here for the full list.

Savvy + Grace is one place to use The Westport Card …

The Westport Card can be purchased in typical gift card denominations (plus a $2 fee). It works like a normal gift card, at participating businesses.

It can be sent electronically (email or text) as a gift, too.

“This is a win-win-win,” Shufro says.

“It’s great for merchants, great for residents, and great for Westport. Why buy a generic gift card like Amazon, when you can buy the Westport Card and keep it local?”

Statistics bear Shufro out. Studies show that local independent retailers recirculate 47% of their revenue back into the community; only 14% of national chains’ revenue stays there.

Meanwhile, local restaurants recirculate 73% of their revenue back to their community; the figure for national chains is 30%.

… and Don Memo is another. (Photo/Katherine Bruan)

Which card do you want in your wallet?

Gold or platinum? Or the one that’s even rarer than rhodium, tellurium and rhenium: the Westport Card?

Click here for more information, and to purchase the Westport Card.

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Roundup: Patagonia, Marathon Book, Sandra Day O’Connor …

That “For Lease” sign was for real.

Patagonia’s last day of business is December 24.

A sign on the door of the clothing and outdoor gear retailer smack in the middle of downtown says: “Thank you, Westport, for letting us be a part of the neighborhood for the last 18 years. It’s been an honor to call this community home.”

Patagonia products can still be found at their wholesale partner, ASF Sports & Outdoors.

Meanwhile, we could make the snarky remark that the valuable property could be replaced by a bank.

Except that’s what it was, for its first 8 or so decades of existence. (Hat tip: Sal Liccione)

Only 23 shopping days until it’s “Pata-gone-ia.”

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Looking for a good read (or holiday gift)?

Westport’s own Jo Ann Miller and Carl Addison Swanson’s “A Marathon of Changes” was called “a very interesting and motivating book for the new year,” by BookList.

Jo Ann — daughter of famed fighter pilot Thomas H. Miller. and goddaughter of astronaut John Glenn (who wrote the foreward) — grew up amid constant change, and in the shadow of the Marine Corps.

After emerging as a beautiful young career woman, the stress of work and life took its toll on her personality as well as her body. Faced with obesity, draining work demands and horrid tragic events in her past, she decided to change her life.

The culmination was the 2006 Marine Corps Marathon. The book follows her through each mile, as she reflects on the demands of the race as well as the remembrances of her past.

The book deals with the loneliness of obesity, the challenge of gastric bypass surgery, the tragedy of life and death, the intimate anger of rape, and finally the joy of financial freedom and newfound love. Click here to purchase.

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The death yesterday of Sandra Day O’Connor brought tributes to the first female Supreme Court justice from around the country.

Westporter Howard Matson remembered a dinner he hosted for her 9 years ago, at New York’s Union League Club.

“She was very gracious,” he told “06880.”

“She spoke at length about her years after leaving the Supreme Court. Her favorite project was a curriculum developed to teach civics online to students. Justice O’Connor felt that there was a profound lack of understanding of the American government structure.”

Justice Sandra Day O’Connor and Howard Matson.

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Before you know it, Christmas will be here.

And the kids will be out of school.

MoCA Westport can help!

Their winter recess Art Camp for Kids runs December 18-22 and 26-29.

Morning sessions (9;30 to 11:30 a.m.) are for nursery schoolers and kindergartners. Participants must be “fully potty trained.”

Full-day sessions (9:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m.) are for kindergartners through 2nd graders.

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One of the first compelling events of the new year is January 10.

Chabad of Westport sponsors an evening of hope and inspiration (7:30 p.m.). Esther Basch — the Honey Girl of Auschwitz — will tell her gripping story of survival and resilience. At 95, she is one of the world’s few remaining Auschwitz survivors.

Esther was transported to the death camp on her 16th birthday in a cattle car. she later faced a death march to the Salzwedel concentration Camp, where she was liberated by American soldiers in April 1945.

Despite the horrors she experienced, Esther’s unshakable faith and universal love for humankind helped her survive, then motivated her to share her story globally.

The event is part of Chabad’s new “Critical Conversation Series,” addressing contemporary Jewish and timely issues.

To reserve a seat, click here. For more information, email  mendel@chabadofwestport.com.

Esther Basch

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No, it’s not a decoy.

Johanna Keyser Rossi spotted today’s “Westport … Naturally” star — a hooded merganser — on Thursday, during her Saugatuck River walk:

(Photo/Johanna Keyser Rossi)

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And finally … On this date in 1942, a Manhattan Project team led by Enrico Fermi initiated the first artificial self-sustaining nuclear chain reaction.

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See You Tonight At The Holiday Stroll!

The weather looks great for today’s big, family-friendly and fun event: the “06880”/Westport Downtown Association Holiday Stroll.

Temperatures will be in the low 50s — with not a raindrop in sight — for tonight’s 5 to 7 p.m. event.

Up and down Main Street, and on Church Lane, Sconset Square and the Post Road, carolers will sing, 60 merchants and restaurants will offer freebies and deals, and everyone will enjoy a traditional, community-wide and very holiday-esque time (complete with “strolling” carolers).

At Stroll “headquarters” — in front of Savvy + Grace, in between Brandy Melville and Cold Fusion — kids can visit with Santa. They’ll meet costumed characters, jump into a photo booth, and be entertained by Staples High’s elite Orphenians.

Youngsters can drop off letters to Santa too (he’ll personally answer each one, with a self-addressed, stamped envelope).

Here’s the latest list of the 60 stores, restaurants and more who will hand out goodies, offer discounts, or find other creative ways to welcome Strollers.

  • Arogya Holistic Healing & Tea: Hot tea to go
  • Artistex Salon & Spa: Buy 1, get 2 free; sale on service packages
  • Awesome Toys & Gifts: Giveaway (TBD)
  • Basso Restaurant & Wine Bar: 15% off for guests mentioning the “06880” Stroll (seating between 4 and 6 p.m.)
  • Birddogs: Free duffle bag with any 5-pair purchase
  • Bobbles & Lace: wine and Bobbles Bucks
  • Bond Vet: Swag and treats
  • Castle Wine & Spirits: Expert wine pairings, with hand-picked selections
  • Clarendon  Fine Art: Bubbly, tasty treats, décor and music; framed, limited edition still life from Tim Fowler (valued at $300)
  • Cloud Nine Designers: Holiday beverages
  • Club Sweat: 3 weeks of classes for $69
  • Cold Fusion Gelato: Free chocolates
  • Cove Collective: 10% off; wine, champagne and a sweet treat
  • Courtgirl: 20% off storewide
  • Crafty Kids: TBA
  • Don Memo: Festive holiday beverage
  • Fred: Holiday treats
  • Gogi Steakhouse: $40 vouchers for dine-in customers
  • Gordon Fine Arts: Light hospitality and hot mulled cider
  • Hummingbird Healing Center: Discounted Harmonic Egg session of $99.99; free gift to everyone visiting the center on the 2nd floor
  • J. Crew: Free pair of cashmere socks, and discount of 15% with any purchase of $125 or more; free tee with every 2 purchased; free tech hat with every 3 purchased; long-sleeve tee or water bottle with every 4
  • Jeweled Coquette: 14K gold “express” permanent bracelet for $100; hot cocoa bar
  • Johnny Was: GWP while supplies last; raffle to win a $250 gift card
  • Kerri Rosenthal: 20% of all KR products; rosé and Prosecco
  • La Plage: 10% off when you mention the Stroll
  • Le Rouge Artisan: White chocolate raspberry hot chocolate
  • Lomito: Peruvian-style hot chocolate with Peruvian paneton or rotisserie chicken mini-sandwich
  • Maxine Salon & Beauty: $20 voucher for any service (except blowouts, men’s/kids and retail); 20% off R & Co. retail products; 10% off all other retail products
  • Mexicue: Happy hour drinks: house margarita $8.50; wine by the glass $8; beer $5
  • Middlemarch: Raffle for $250 gift card, with purchase
  • Naturino Kids Shoes & More: 25% off single item all day long
  • Nômade: Firepit to make your own s’mores
  • Offline by Aerie: 30% off select items; free yoga mat or water bottle with a booked appointment
  • Party Harty: 10% of all Westport-related merchandise
  • Penfield Collective: Prosecco
  • Rhone: Holiday cheer, wellness and gift giving
  • Rive Bistro: Festive cocktail
  • Ron Lakek Gallery: 20% off all framed photos, plus wine and chocolate
  • Rowan: Free pair of earrings with purchase of $75 or more
  • Savvy + Grace: A “north Pole” mailbox for kids’ letters to Santa; holiday cookies
  • Scout & Molly’s: 20% off total purchase
  • Serendipity Labs: Complimentary week of co-working
  • Sorelle Gallery: 20% off in store, all day
  • South Moon Under: 20% off when you spend $100 or more
  • State & Liberty Clothing: 10-15% off bulk purchases of shirts and pants
  • Stretch Zone: Stretches and free stretch vouchers
  • The Tailored Home & Studio Café: Complimentary Santa’s cookies and  hot chocolate; 50% off on all pillows
  • Town of Weston Ukraine Sister City Partnership: Apple cider, water, bracelets, ornaments
  • Toy Post: Free giveaway to children
  • Vince: 15% off full price merchandise when you sign up for texts
  • Vivid Cottage: 5 free holiday cards with purchase
  • Walrus Alley: Happy hour prices
  • WEST: $50 gift card for holiday shopping, through December 31
  • West/Out East: Prosecco and presents
  • Westport Book Shop: free gift with purchase, and coupon valid through December 31
  • Westport Country Playhouse: Buy 1 ticket for “A Sherwood Carol,” get 1 free (December 22 2 p.m. or December 23 7 p.m. shows)
  • Whip Salon: $10 gift card for stopping to say hi (18 and over); holiday treats
  • Williams Sonoma: Hot apple cider and peppermint bark
  • Winfield Street Coffee: $3 hot chocolates with candy canes
  • Merchants and restaurants wishing to participate should click here, to fill out an online form.

The Holiday Stroll includes vendor booths too, including Tend, Stretch Zone, SugarKrisp and Westport is the Bestport. Non-profit booths like Homes with Hope and MOSS will also be in attendance. Sponsors David Adams Realty and SCA Crowley make it all possible.

See you from 5 to 7 p.m. tonight at the “06880”/Westport Downtown Association Holiday Stroll.

Santa hats and ugly sweaters are optional.

The Staples High School Orphenians are a huge attraction at the Holiday Stroll.

Roundup: Maria’s Kidney, Saturday’s Stroll, Stew’s Menorah …

Maria Vailakis-Wippick needs a kidney.

The former Staples High and Long Lots Elementary School staff member, kids’ and adults’ yoga teacher and meditation leader (at schools, the Senior Center, YMCA and Christ & Holy Trinity Church), and longtime Westport resident, is just 63 years old, and in excellent health otherwise.

Her family has a history of chronic kidney disease. Her son and daughter are not eligible to donate, because they’re at risk of the disease. Her siblings have compromised kidneys too.

A kidney from a living donor has a much higher success rate than waiting 5 to 7 years for a deceased donor kidney. At 15% function, and stage 5 kidney failure, she would have to go on dialysis before one would become available. She watched her father suffer through that.

Testing is easy. It involves an EKG, bloodwork, stress test and colonoscopy.

Even if you don’t match with Maria, your donation starts an exchange program. She could get another matching kidney, from someone who donated on another person’s behalf.

Call Yale New Haven Hospital (866-925-3897, option 1) to find out more about donation. Give Maria’s name as the recipient.

Maria Vailakis-Wippick

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This one snuck up on us: Tonight (Friday, 4:30 to 6:30 p.m.) is the annual Wakeman Town Farm holiday tree lighting.

In addition to the lights, there are home-baked cookies, treats and hot chocolate from The Porch and Sweet P Bakery — plus a bonfire, and local musicians.

1st Selectwoman Jen Tooker and Bill Constantino — a Wakeman family member — do the lighting honors.

The 2021 Wakeman Town Farm tree. (Photo/Dan Woog

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Don’t forget: Tomorrow (Saturday) is the day for the “06880”/Westport Downtown Association Holiday Stroll! Its’ 5 to 7 p.m., up and down Main Street, plus Church Street and the Post Road.

It’s a great, family- and kids-friendly way to ring in December.

The Holiday Stroll is very family friendly. There’s a visit from Santa, costumed characters, a photo booth, holiday music from the Orphenians, caroling (beginning at Sconset Square) and more. Youngsters can drop off letters to Santa too (he’ll personally answer each one, with a self-addressed envelope).

Meanwhile, another 8 merchants have signed on. That brings the total to a whopping 60 stores, restaurants and more who will hand out goodies, offer discounts, or find other creative ways to welcome Strollers.

New additions include Cloud Nine Designers, Cold Fusion Gelato, Courtgirl, Club Sweat, Middlemarch, Moxie Salon & Beauty, Penfield Collective, and State & Liberty Clothing.

Here are the treats:

  • Arogya Holistic Healing & Tea: Hot tea to go
  • Artistex Salon & Spa: Buy 1, get 2 free; sale on service packages
  • Awesome Toys & Gifts: Giveaway (TBD)
  • Basso Restaurant & Wine Bar: 15% off for guests mentioning the “06880” Stroll (seating between 4 and 6 p.m.)
  • Birddogs: Free duffle bag with any 5-pair purchase
  • Bobbles & Lace: wine and Bobbles Bucks
  • Bond Vet: Swag and treats
  • Castle Wine & Spirits: Expert wine pairings, with hand-picked selections
  • Clarendon  Fine Art: Bubbly, tasty treats, décor and music; framed, limited edition still life from Tim Fowler (valued at $300)
  • Cloud Nine Designers: Holiday beverages
  • Club Sweat: 3 weeks of classes for $69
  • Cold Fusion Gelato: Free chocolates
  • Cove Collective: 10% off; wine, champagne and a sweet treat
  • Courtgirl: 20% off storewide
  • Crafty Kids: TBA
  • Don Memo: Festive holiday beverage
  • Fred: Holiday treats
  • Gogi Steakhouse: $40 vouchers for dine-in customers
  • Gordon Fine Arts: Light hospitality and hot mulled cider
  • Hummingbird Healing Center: Discounted Harmonic Egg session of $99.99; free gift to everyone visiting the center on the 2nd floor
  • J. Crew: Free pair of cashmere socks, and discount of 15% with any purchase of $125 or more; free tee with every 2 purchased; free tech hat with every 3 purchased; long-sleeve tee or water bottle with every 4
  • Jeweled Coquette: 14K gold “express” permanent bracelet for $100; hot cocoa bar
  • Johnny Was: GWP while supplies last; raffle to win a $250 gift card
  • Kerri Rosenthal: 20% of all KR products; rosé and Prosecco
  • La Plage: 10% off when you mention the Stroll
  • Le Rouge Artisan: White chocolate raspberry hot chocolate
  • Lomito: Peruvian-style hot chocolate with Peruvian paneton or rotisserie chicken mini-sandwich
  • Maxine Salon & Beauty: $20 voucher for any service (except blowouts, men’s/kids and retail); 20% off R & Co. retail products; 10% off all other retail products
  • Mexicue: Happy hour drinks: house margarita $8.50; wine by the glass $8; beer $5
  • Middlemarch: Raffle for $250 gift card, with purchase
  • Naturino Kids Shoes & More: 25% off single item all day long
  • Nômade: Firepit to make your own s’mores
  • Offline by Aerie: 30% off select items; free yoga mat or water bottle with a booked appointment
  • Party Harty: 10% of all Westport-related merchandise
  • Penfield Collective: Prosecco
  • Rhone: Holiday cheer, wellness and gift giving
  • Rive Bistro: Festive cocktail
  • Ron Lakek Gallery: 20% off all framed photos, plus wine and chocolate
  • Rowan: Free pair of earrings with purchase of $75 or more
  • Savvy + Grace: A “north Pole” mailbox for kids’ letters to Santa; holiday cookies
  • Scout & Molly’s: 20% off total purchase
  • Serendipity Labs: Complimentary week of co-working
  • Sorelle Gallery: 20% off in store, all day
  • South Moon Under: 20% off when you spend $100 or more
  • State & Liberty Clothing: 10-15% off bulk purchases of shirts and pants
  • Stretch Zone: Stretches and free stretch vouchers
  • The Tailored Home & Studio Café: Complimentary Santa’s cookies and  hot chocolate; 50% off on all pillows
  • Town of Weston Ukraine Sister City Partnership: Apple cider, water, bracelets, ornaments
  • Toy Post: Free giveaway to children
  • Vince: 15% off full price merchandise when you sign up for texts
  • Vivid Cottage: 5 free holiday cards with purchase
  • Walrus Alley: Happy hour prices
  • WEST: $50 gift card for holiday shopping, through December 31
  • West/Out East: Prosecco and presents
  • Westport Book Shop: free gift with purchase, and coupon valid through December 31
  • Westport Country Playhouse: Buy 1 ticket for “A Sherwood Carol,” get 1 free (December 22 2 p.m. or December 23 7 p.m. shows)
  • Whip Salon: $10 gift card for stopping to say hi (18 and over); holiday treats
  • Williams Sonoma: Hot apple cider and peppermint bark
  • Winfield Street Coffee: $3 hot chocolates with candy canes
  • Merchants and restaurants wishing to participate should click here, to fill out an online form.

There will be vendor booths too, including Tend, Stretch Zone, SugarKrisp and Westport is the Bestport. Non-profit booths like Homes with Hope and MOSS will also be in attendance. Sponsors David Adams Realty and SCA Crowley make it all possible.

A serious Santa conversation, at last year’s Stroll. (Photo/Dan Woog)

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Speaking of the holidays:

Stew Leonard’s community menorah lighting celebration is next Thursday (December 7, 5 p.m.).

It’s the 32nd annual family-friendly event for “the world’s largest dairy store,” which began life as a Clover Farms milk vending machine in Saugatuck.

Rabbi Yehoshua Hecht of Beth Israel Chabad will light an 18-foot menorah, followed by live music, holiday songs and pre-packaged kosher refreshments. Hot potato latkes, dreidels and chocolate gelt will be distributed to all.

Norwalk Mayor Harry Rilling and Westport dignitaries will be on hand for Fairfield County’s largest menorah lighting. .

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Speaking still of the holidays: Westport Country Playhouse is a collection site for Norwalk Toys for Tots and Westport Homes with Hope food pantry during its December lineup of shows, including “The Lightning Thief” on December 2, the “Warrior Class,” Script in Hand play reading December 4, “A Sherlock Carol” December 19-23, and “The Nutcracker” December 8-9.

But you don’t have to see a show to help. Items for the 2 charities may be dropped in collection boxes in the Playhouse lobby any time the box office is open (Tuesday through Friday, noon to 5 p.m.), as well as performance times.

For Norwalk Toys for Tots, new, unwrapped toys and books for children will be collected through December 14. Items sought include books for all ages in Spanish and Haitian Creole, and toys for newborns through age 18.

For the Homes with Hope food pantry, items may be dropped off in the Playhouse lobby during the run of “A Sherlock Carol,” Tuesday, December 19 through Saturday, December 23. Items needed include canned tuna, chicken, meat; canned vegetables and fruit; hot and cold cereal; canned soup, beef stew, chili; peanut butter and jelly; pasta sauce; mayonnaise; rice (small bags or boxes); protein and granola bars; and crackers.

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Production began this week on “The Apprentice.”

The film with the familiar name is “an exploration of power and ambition, set in a world of corruption and deceit.” It explores Donald Trump’s efforts to build his real estate business in New York in the ’70s and ’80s, along with his relationship with attorney Roy Cohn.

Deadline says, “Filled with larger than life characters, it reveals the moral and human cost of a culture defined by winners and losers.”

The Westport connection: “The Apprentice” was written by Gabe Sherman. He went to Kings Highway Elementary and Bedford Middle School, then Staples High for one year before transferring (in part for skiing) to the Holderness School in New Hampshire. 

Sherman graduated from Middlebury College in 2001. His bestseller “The Loudest Voice in the Room” inspired Showtime’s miniseries “The Loudest Voice,” starring Russell Crowe as Fox News founder Roger Ailes. 

For more details on the film, click here.

“The Apprentice” stars (from left) Sebastian Stan as Donald Trump, Jeremy Strong as Roy Cohn, and Maria Bakalova as Ivana Trump (inserts).

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Earthplace’s winter program guide is online. It includes information on youth and teen programs, drop-in activities, family and adult events, and day and summer camps.

Click here to see.

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Today’s “Westport … Naturally” photo was taken on Morningside Drive South.

Sure, it’s more natural for leaves to just lie where they fall.

But this is the suburban way.

Fingers crossed there’s not much wind …

(Photo/Bob Weingarten)

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And finally … in honor of today’s “Westport … Naturally” photo above:

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The Day Steve Haberstroh Had Warren Buffett — And Charlie Munger’s — Ear

The death yesterday of Charles Munger — Warren Buffett’s longtime #2 man — at 99 years old spurred memories of the one time they appeared in “06880.”

It was May 10, 2017. Here is that story:

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Steve Haberstroh is a 2000 Staples High School grad, and former basketball star. Today he’s managing director at Westport-based CastleKeep Investment Advisors. He just returned from Warren Buffett’s annual meeting in Omaha.

Over 40,000 shareholders gather at the “Woodstock for Capitalists.” But Haberstroh was more than just an attendee. His name was called — and Buffett spent 8 minutes answering his question. Let the Westporter tell the story:

Every February, Buffett publishes a Letter to Shareholders. He does a magical job of describing the year for Berkshire Hathaway. He also addresses social, political or other financial-related themes each year. It is a must read for financial types and casual investors.

This year, The Oracle of Omaha took on the fees charged by the hedge fund industry. He believes they charge far too much. The same is true for what Buffett calls “financial helpers”: those who manage investment funds, many of whom have the objective of “beating the market.”

I work for our family wealth management and investment firm in Westport. I also own a small amount of Berkshire Hathaway stock. Many of our clients own shares as well.

We are not a hedge fund. Nor do clients expect their portfolios to outpace the S&P 500 each year. However, we do charge a fee to deliver holistic wealth management advice, so I suppose Buffett would put us in the “financial helper” category.

I did not take offense at his comments, which were directed more toward hedge funds. But I needed to react.

I took Buffett up on the offer in his letter, and submitted a question. I hoped it would be chosen from thousands of entries to be read at the shareholder meeting.  I wrote:

You made it very clear in your annual letter that you think the hedge-fund compensation scheme of  “2 and 20” generally does not work well for the funds’ investors. In the past, you have questioned whether investors should pay “financial helpers” as much as they do.

But “financial helpers” can create tremendous value for those they “help.” For instance, in nearly every annual letter you describe how valuable Charlie Munger’s advice and counsel has been to you and, in turn to the incredible rise in Berkshire’s value over time.

Given that, would you be willing to pay the industry-standard “financial helper” fee of 1%-on-assets to Charlie. Or would you perhaps even consider “2 and 20” for him? (Click here for more details.)

Berkshire Hathaway owns Heinz. Steve Haberstroh is on the left.

Berkshire Hathaway has over 60 subsidiaries, including Benjamin Moore, Duracell, Dairy Queen, Fruit of the Loom, GEICO, Kraft-Heinz, Net Jets and See’s Candies.

The company also owns large stakes in publicly traded companies, including American Express, Apple, IBM, Delta, Apple and Wells Fargo.

In Omaha, the thousands of us can purchase everything from underwear to ice cream, car insurance to million-dollar diamond rings, all at shareholder discount. I saved nearly $1,000 on my car insurance with GEICO while there. But I also spent a penny or two.

The main attraction is Saturday. Shareholders descend upon the Century Link Sports Arena for a 7-hour Q&A with 86-year-old Warren and his 93-year-old co-chair, Charlie Munger. Folks lined up at 2 a.m. for the 8:30 start.

Steve Haberstroh and his wife Erin, in the Omaha arena.

Nearly 3 hours into the meeting, I expected Buffett would announce lunch time. But suddenly he said, ”The next question comes from shareholder Steve Haberstroh…”

First, my heart skipped a beat. Second, I could not tame my inner millennial. I grabbed my iPhone to record what came next.

The crowd chuckled at the “Would you consider paying Charlie…” punch line. Then Buffett responded.

The next 8 minutes were a blur.  I felt shock, pride and fear.

The fear came early in Buffett’s response. He said, “it’s just not a good question to ask.”

Despite that, his lengthy response indicated otherwise. He broached the subject again toward the end of the meeting, so maybe I was on to something.

Warren Buffett (right) and Charlie Munger.

His basic take was, indeed, he would pay Charlie 1% per year or “2 and 20,” but who wouldn’t? He likened the premise to asking if the Red Sox would like to go back and reverse their decision to trade Babe Ruth away to the Yankees.

Of course Munger is worth it. But Buffett also spent a good part of the response detailing his view that hedge funds, in aggregate, are not worth the fees they charge. He cited many examples and metaphors (including the value obstetricians provide), until Munger ended the discussion with, “I think you’ve beaten on them (hedge fund industry) enough!” (Click here for a video of the question, and Buffett’s full response.)

Just like that, my 8 minutes of fame was up. That is, until Bloomberg, the Wall Street, Fox Business — and now “068880” — picked up the story!

I will never forget the experience. And I will try to apply and adopt several of the lessons I learned during the weekend.

But I do have one bone to pick with the Oracle of Omaha. As I learned way back in Coleytown Elementary School: Mr. Buffett, there is no such thing as a bad question!

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