Few topics get our readers’ tongues wagging more than dog stories.
Recent coverage of a text amendment to allow fenced-in areas at town parks drew dozens of comments. We won’t rehash them here.
But one came in after all the others. Most readers missed it.
It was not about whether a dog run is a good idea or not. Nor did it concern safety, aggressive dogs, location or anything else.
It was much more basic. Why, the writer asked, do we need a dog park of any kind? He said:
More than 90% of Westport dwelling units are single family homes. With yards. In all our time there, across 3 homes, all with dogs, not once did we take our dog to the park. We would take our Golden to the beach off season so she could jump in the waves, otherwise they were each pretty happy in their own yards and going on the occasional neighborhood walk.
Winslow Park
Then he doubled down, tossing another town amenity into the mix:
I’ll admit I also don’t understand the draw of the community garden. Each of our 3 homes had gardens, some more successful than others based on the quality of the fencing.
I live on the Upper West Side now so I get the allure of dog parks and community gardens where none of us have yards, but in the 06880 where 90%+ can do this all at home, what’s the need for dedicated public space?
Inadvertently, he answered his own question. A dog park and garden are important for basset hounds and tomatoes, sure.
But they are also about people. About society. About — and the word is right there, in the name of the garden — “community.”
Gardening can be a satisfying, solitary endeavor. But the gardeners formed a real community at Long Lots.
They educated and learned from each other. They admired each other’s plots. They shared the “fruits” of their labors (and vegetables and flowers), socializing together and watching birds and sunsets. They cheered each other’s milestones, and supported each other through personal struggles.
Westport Community Garden (Photo/Lou Weinberg)
Similarly, Winslow Park is a place where dog owners and dogs can gather together.
Humans and canines need companionship (and not just of their own kind — dogs meet other people, and vice versa).
As with the community garden, friendships form across generations. And if you want to be alone — but not feel alone — there’s a place for you.
Some people think a downside of suburbia is that people keep to themselves too much, in their own homes and yards. Community gardens and parks are antidotes to that.
But those are not the only spaces we gather, even if we don’t have to.
Many Westporters have backyard pools. All of us have access to Long Island Sound. Yet we swim at the YMCA and Longshore — sharing lanes and locker rooms.
Aquafit class, at the Westport Weston Family YMCA.
We exercise our bodies, of course. But we also exercise our social muscles.
We can all read or study alone. So why do it at the Westport Library? There is comfort in being surrounded by others — even if we don’t know who they are.
It doesn’t hurt either that — although we can make our own coffee — we can also take a break in the Library Café.
Two of the most popular events “06880” sponsors are the downtown winter and Soundview Avenue summer strolls.
What propels someone to leave a warm home in December, or a backyard pool in July, to walk up and down the street?
Music and food, yes. But the real attraction is other people.
Outdoor dining: more social than eating at home.
I could go on and on. We can worship at home, but we go to a church, synagogue or mosque.
We can eat at home, but we take pride in our many restaurants. And the buzz and vibe that is different — but present — in each.
You — and hopefully the “06880” commenter — get the point.
The question is not whether we “need” a dog park or community garden.
It’s what kind of town, or people, would we be without them?
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