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Nevah Surrendah!

Nineteen years ago, Paul Green was diagnosed with Parkinson’s.

His 1st reaction was to fight back.

His 2nd was to figure out how.

His 3rd was to apply what he’d learned: that movement like exercise and dance can slow the progression of that torturous disease.

Last night at the Saugatuck Rowing Club, Paul — 88 years young — was the star attraction. A video highlighting his avid, ongoing work was shown. It serves 2 purposes: educating Parkinson’s patients about the benefits of exercise, and raising funds for a foundation Paul started.

Paul Green, hard at work at the Saugatuck Rowing Club.

The non-profit is called Nevah Surrendah to Parkinson’s. The name honors Paul’s always-optimistic attitude — and pays homage to his hero Winston Churchill’s legendary exhortation. (And his accent. Paul also pronounces it “nevah surrendah” — he’s from Boston.)

The site was perfect. Rowing is one of the many activities that keeps Paul’s Parkinson’s in check. The Saugatuck club has been his home away from his Old Mill home for years.

The rowing community is a close and very friendly one. Paul is one of its true idols — and a real favorite. (Particularly with the ladies.)

Last summer, the Saugatuck Rowing Club was the site of another tribute to Paul, and his Nevah Surrendah foundation. Scenes from that event — and a July dance-and-exercise session at the Senior Center — have been incorporated into the compelling  video that premiered last night.

Paul Green, keeping active in the boathouse he loves.

The video begins with scenes of reggae artist Mystic Bowie and Zumba instructor Eddie Calle leading at the Senior Center. The music is infectious; the smiles are heartfelt, and the scenes of older men and women — some with caretakers, others with grandchildren — moving slowly but rhythmically to the sounds of ska are inspiring.

Paul hopes that the video will show others with Parkinson’s — or any movement disorder — how to exercise for improved balance, a positive attitude and a healthy lifestyle.

Interviews with Paul’s neurologist, Dr. Amy Knoor; his physical therapist, Tara Maroney and his chiropractor Dr. Joshua Lander prove that Paul has not only nevah surrendahed — he’s thrived.

And as he’s done for nearly 2 decades, he’s helping others thrive.

“Paul is such an inspiration,” one of the rowers interviewed on the video says. “We think we’re working hard. Then we see him out on the water — with such a smile on his face!”

The same smile he wore all last night, as he greeted and danced his way through a throng of family members, friends and fans.

(Click here for more information on the Nevah Surrendah foundation — and to view the Paul Green video.)

Paul Green and his son Peter.

Betty Lou Cummings: Still Cheering

Generations of Westporters know Betty Lou Cummings as Westport’s #1 cheerleader.

Whether serving as 2nd selectman or leading projects like the Riverwalk or library’s River of Names, Betty Lou is a big civic booster.

Some Westporters know that Betty Lou’s enthusiasm comes naturally:  She was a cheerleader at Michigan State.

What many don’t know is that she was 1 of the first female cheerleaders there — or in the entire Big 10.

Recently, Betty Lou returned to her native state.  The occasion was bittersweet — she and her husband Tom said goodbye to his mother, who died recently at 103 — but she also stopped by her alma mater’s alumni association.

When they heard her history, they taped her — for their archives, and YouTube.

In 1954, Betty Lou says, 200 students tried out for the cheerleading squad.  Only 6 were chosen.  Four — like her — were blonde.

“We were famous all over Michigan,” she says.  Nearly all cheerleaders at the time were male.

In the video, she talks about her work with Westport’s Senior Center.  Every Super Bowl Sunday, she leads cheers at the annual party — with her green and white Spartans pompoms.

She also says that instead of accompanying the squad to the Rose Bowl, she got married.  Her father objected:  She could get married any time — but there was only one Rose Bowl.

At the end of the video, Betty Lou gives a rousing Michigan State cheer.

She hasn’t lost a beat.

You Don’t Have To Be Jewish…

What if you offered low-cost therapy to teenagers, divorced people and seniors — and no one took advantage of it?

That’s not exactly what’s happening with the Jewish Family Service, but it’s close.

For several years, the agency has provided counseling services to residents of Westport, Weston, Wilton and Norwalk.  Clients — who of course do not have to be Jewish — are few and far between.

“We’re a hidden gem,” says a frustrated Sue Brenner, the psychotherapist and clinical supervisor at JFS’s Westport office (located in Compo Shopping Center, above Cohen’s Fashion Optical).

“Maybe because we’re a non-profit, and don’t have the finances to advertise, but we’re definitely underused.  It’s puzzling to me.”

The counseling — by licensed clinicians — is low-cost, for families, couples and individuals.  No one is turned away; if you can’t pay, there is no fee.  JFS does accept insurance.

The organization is starting 2 new groups.  One is called “Teens — Let’s Talk.”  The focus will include self-consciousness, difficulty getting to school or attending social activities, concerns about body image, and worries about academic or athletic performance.

The teen group will meet Tuesdays from 6:30-7:30 p.m.  For more information, contact Lisa  Schwartz (203-400-9301; lschwartz25@gmail.com).

A 2nd group is aimed at men in the process of divorce.  It will meet Wednesdays, from 7:30-9 p.m.  For information, contact Anthony Silver (203-921-4161, ext. 213, asilver@ctjfs.org.)

One success story is older Westporters.  For a while now, JFS has facilitated an ongoing group at the Senior Center.

What do they know that the rest of Westport doesn’t?

Surveying Seniors

The Senior Center is a Westport success story.  Its classes, workshops, lunches and other activities attract 1,000 users — solid numbers, for sure.

But of 5,000 senior-age Westporters, the Center’s long-range planning team wondered why 4,000 men and women do not use it.

With help from marketing professionals Lloyd Kirban and Meta Schroeder, and assistance from the Y’s Men, 340 non-users were surveyed recently by phone.

A key finding:  up to 65 percent of the seniors are either still working, too busy or feel too young to use it.  “That was eye-opening,” admits committee member Dana Johnson.

Some younger seniors — those 60 to 65 — said they would use the center if it were open beyond “business hours.”  (It already stays open until 8 p.m. Thursdays, and from 8:30 a.m. to noon Saturdays.)

The survey showed exercise classes, creative programs and lectures to be among the most popular offerings.  Some of those may be expanded, Johnson says.

The committee continues to analyze survey data.  But they’re gratified, so far, to learn that they’re reaching most of the people who can, or would, use the center.

One thing is clear, Johnson says:  As baby boomers age, they’ll work longer — many into their 70s.  They may not start visiting Westport’s Senior Center until they’re 75 or so.

Whenever they do, the Center will be ready for them.

Westport Center for Senior Activities

Westport Center for Senior Activities