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Roundup: Synthetic Turf Fields Meeting, Pepperidge Farm Neglect, Jimmy Smits Fans …

Posted on June 9, 2026 | Leave a comment

One of the hot topics this summer will be synthetic turf fields.

Tonight (Tuesday, 7 p.m., Zoom), 2 Representative Town Meeting committees — Environment, and Health & Human Services — meet jointly, to discuss the topic.

It is the first of at least one or two similar meetings.

Members will not present or vote on an ordinance. The focus tonight will be on artificial turf, but they will also hear from someone with success working with grass fields.

Click here for materials that are part of the official agenda.  And click here for the Zoom link.

Wakeman Field (center) is one of 3 synthetic turf fields in Westport. The other athletic fields surrounding it are grass.

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Speaking of sports: The FCIAC (league) champion Staples High School boys lacrosse team is aiming now at a state championship. That double has not been accomplished since Darien did it in 2017. It’s never been done by the Wreckers.

Tomorrow (Wednesday) they take on New Canaan, in the “LL” semifinals. The game begins at 5 p.m., at Fairfield University.

Staples’ opponent is Darien — a team they’ve beaten 3 times already this year, including a nail-biting 10-9 FCIAC championship win.

The Wreckers are ranked 5th in the state tournament. In an odd twist — thanks to power rankings and records — the Rams are 1st.

Tickets are $11.25, and must be purchased online in advance. Click here for the link.

The Staples game is the first of the double-headed. The 7:30 pits Darien against Fairfield Prep. So no matter who wins either contest, an all-Fairfield County final is assured.

Staples celebrates their FCIAC title. (Photo/Greg Raymond)

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From 1947 until fairly recently, the Pepperidge Farm property on the Westport/Norwalk line was a magical place.

Some of America’s best loved treats were made there. And if you drove by at the right time, the smell of fresh-baked bread was intoxicating.

These days, the scene is quite different.

One of the most beautifully maintained and recognizable landscapes in the area has fallen into a state of neglect.

It has not been maintened for months. Trash, debris, weeds and overgrown grass and plants have taken over the lot. A king mattress and box spring sat in the parking lot for months.

Neighbors are concerned about ticks, and rodents burrowing in the tall grass.

One view of the old Pepperidge Farms property …

The Campbell’s Company⁠ (formerly Campbell Soup Company) owned the property for over 60 years, after acquiring Pepperidge Farm in 1961.

Last year they sold the property to a New York developer, TVG Partners, through an entity called 595 Westport LLC, for approximately $11 million. The developer has proposed redeveloping the site, while retaining some office space.

Westport Auction leased the front of the property in January 2026. The back of the property remains vacant.

Meanwhile, instead of closing eyes to luxuriate in the aroma of just-baked bread, folks close their eyes to avoid an unsightly mess.

… and another.

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Last night’s Westport Country Playhouse Script in Hand reading of “A Tailor Near Me” featured the popular actor Jimmy Smits.

How popular?

Playhouse and “06880” photographer Dave Matlow reports that after shooting the play’s rehearsal yesterday afternoon, he met twin sisters on the WCP steps.

Sharon Lowe and Norma Leyden are a few days away from their 74th birthday. For years, they have traveled throughout the US — including California, Chicago, Washington and Broadway — to watch Smits perform.

Sharon Lowe (left) and Norma Leyden. (Photo/Dave Matlow)

They live in the Boston area, and were vacationing on Nantucket. That’s where they first met Smits, 20 years ago.

They drove to Westport yesterday, to watch their favorite actor in the script reading. They were there after the show too, waiting for him to leave.

From the reviews we’ve heard, the sisters — and everyone else in the audience — got their money’s worth.

Matlow reports the comedy was completely sold out. It was written by Michael Tucker, best known as an “L.A. Law” actor. He was part of the reading last night, joined by 2 others from that TV show: Smits and Tucker’s wife, Jill Eikenberry.

This was the last Script in Hand production of the spring. The series resumes September 14.

Curtain call (from left): Jimmy Smits, Michael Tucker, Jill Eikenberry. (Photo/Dave Matlow)

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Two of Westport’s most interesting people are on stage tonight, at the Westport Library.

Journalist Dave Briggs chats with former Navy SEAL commander and White House fellow Mike Hayes. They’ll explore how to navigate life’s transitions with purpose. The starting point is “Mission Driven: The Path to a Life of Purpose,” Hayes’ practical, inspiring guide to building a more meaningful life.

Click here for details on this sure-to-be insightful conversation.

Mike Hayes

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Also today (Tuesday, 11 a.m. to 4 p.m.): The Exchange Project presents a “Swap Day: Summer Edition.”  The host is Abby Jaramillo.

The Exchange Project “redefines luxury resale through thoughtful curation, conscious consumption, and timeless style. (They) extend the life of exceptional clothing by editing the best pieces already in circulation—creating a refined, sustainable marketplace where style never comes at the planet’s expense.”

Fresh pieces are updated hourly, including new arrivals from Balenciaga, Zara, Alo, Frame, L’Agence and more. Click here for tickets; address given upon purchase.

Carly Ridloff of The Exchange Project.

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The closure from June 18 through August of Cross Highway near the entrance to Wakeman Town Farm — for replacement of the Deadman Brook bridge — has already been announced.

But it will also be closed this Thursday and Friday (June 11 and 12) from 8:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m., for gas line and utility work. Cross Highway will be open, however, from Bayberry Lane to Wakeman Farm Drive.

To accommodate graduation ceremonies, the road and bridge will be open on June 15 and 16 for events at Staples High School and Bedford Middle School.

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Sara Caswell and Ike Sturm headline this Thursday’s Jazz at the Post (7:30 and 8:45 p.m. shows; dinner at 7 p.m.; VFW Post 399).

She is a Grammy-nominated, classically trained string player; he’s a noted bassist.

They’ll be joined by guitarist Jesse Lewis and drummer Michael W. Davis. Click here for tickets, and more information. 

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Longtime Westport resident Linda Volckmann died peacefully on June 6, surrounded by her family. She was 88.

A native of Yakima, Washington, she earned a bachelor’s in economics and a master’s in teaching, both from Stanford University.

She married Carl Volckmann in 1965. His career with IBM took the family throughout the Northeast. They settled in Westport in 1974.

Here Linda developed a love of sailing alongside her Navy husband, formed lifelong friendships, and devoted countless hours to supporting her children’s athletic, music and academic pursuits.

She attended many swim meets, tennis matches and horseback riding competitions. Later, she was on the sidelines for soccer, lacrosse games and wrestling competitions.

Linda loved to travel, and enjoyed adventures throughout Asia and Africa.

When their children were grown, Linda and Carl found a second home in Stuart, Florida, where many friends from graduate school had settled. For nearly 2 decades they enjoyed life as “snowbirds.”

After selling their Westport home of 43 years, they divided their time between Park City, Utah, and Florida.

Linda is survived by her  husband, Carl; daughter Karin Goodman (Nick) and their children Kendall, Hayden and Camden; her aughter Tina Perala (Matthew) and their children Kai and Teo; her son Eric and his children Evelyn and Emmett.

Linda is also survived by her brother and sister-in-law, Jim and Lynne Terril, and their children Christopher and Laura; sister, Lila Nielsen and her children Gretchen and Vicki, and nieces Kristen Doerrer, Eryn Cusic and Micheal Cusic .

Her family says, “Linda will be remembered for her intelligence, generosity, quiet strength, and unwavering devotion to family and friends. She had a remarkable gift for making people feel welcome, valued and loved.

A memorial service will take place at the end of the year. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Green’s Farms Congregational Church, CT, Mariner Sands Chapel Benevolence Fund, or Make-A-Wish of Seattle (Alaska & Washington chapter).

Linda Volckmann

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Great light makes today’s “Westport … Naturally” image — showing Sherwood Mill Pond — extra special.

(Photo/Judith Katz)

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And finally … speaking of the Pepperidge Farm property (story above), this seems like an apt song:

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Winslow Park Dogport: 2nd Survey Seeks Input

Posted on June 9, 2026 | Leave a comment

As the proposal to create a fenced area in Winslow Park for off-leash dogs moves forward, some residents say proponents are barking up the wrong tree.

This month, Representative Town Meeting member Andrew Colabella filed a request with the Planning & Zoning Department for a text amendment change to the Dedicated Open Space and Recreation District Zone.

It would “provide a safe, controlled area for off-leash recreation, while preserving the park’s overall open space character and public accessibility.” The area would “enhance (Winslow Park) through responsible management, improved safety, and additional recreational opportunities for residents.”

Proposed location of the Winslow Park “Dogport.”

Mark Mathias — who lives near Winslow Park, and uses it frequently with his dog — tells “06880” that the proposed “Dogport” has elicited plenty of discussion at the 29-acre town-owned property.

He said a recent Zoom call with the Parks & Recreation Commission did not result in a recommendation. The conversation ended, Mathias says, with commissioner recommending that alternate locations — other than the proposed site along Compo Road North — be explored.

Proponents were urged to put a flyer at Winslow Park, with a link to their survey. A few days later, the flyer — with a QR code — was placed at the water fountain, and other spots (photo below). Click here for a link to that survey.

However, Mathias says, some Winslow Park regulars felt the survey did not address “fundamental issues,” or “adequately reflect the views of people who use Winslow Park.”

They created their own longer survey, and posted 3 signs in the park with links to it (photo below). Click here for a link to that survey.

(Photos/Mark Mathias)

Mathias urges residents to fill out either or both surveys — and/or contact the Planning & Zoning Commission directly. NOTE: The text amendment proposal has not yet been added as an agenda item.

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Pic Of The Day #3337

Posted on June 8, 2026 | 1 comment

Burying Hill Beach view (Photo/Michael Chait)

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Scarice: Swatting Incident Update

Posted on June 8, 2026 | 1 comment

Superintendent of schools Thomas Scarice offers this update on today’s swatting incident at Bedford Middle School:

As many of you know, Bedford Middle School received a threatening phone call at approximately 10:31 a.m., prompting an immediate lockdown of the school. Based on information provided by the Westport Police Department shortly thereafter, the district was informed that the call appeared to be part of a series of suspected swatting incidents reported across Connecticut today, including reported incidents in Killingly and Greenwich.

While early information suggested this was likely a hoax, Westport Public Schools and the Westport Police Department followed all established safety protocols, and responded as though the threat was real until proven otherwise.

A lockdown was immediately initiated at Bedford Middle School, and because Bedford and Staples High School share a campus, Staples High School was placed into a shelter-in-place as an added precaution.

Throughout the morning, we provided updates to the community as information became available:

  • 10:31 a.m. – Threatening call received at Bedford Middle School; lockdown initiated.
  • 10:57 a.m. – Initial communication (#1) sent to families informing the community of the Bedford lockdown and Staples shelter-in-place.
  • 11:24 a.m. – Staples High School shelter-in-place lifted.
  • 11:40 a.m. – Community update (#2) distributed regarding the lifting of the Staples shelter-in-place.
  • 11:58 a.m. – Bedford Middle School lockdown lifted after law enforcement cleared the interior of the building.
  • 12:09 p.m. – Community update (#3) distributed announcing the lifting of the Bedford lockdown.

Once the interior of the building was cleared, Bedford transitioned from a “lockdown” to “secure the school” status, while first responders completed their work outside the building.

For those unfamiliar with these terms:

  • A Lockdown is used when there is a potential threat to safety. Students and staff immediately move into secured rooms, doors are locked, and students and staff are expected to remain silent until first responders or administrators provide direction.
  • Secure the School status is used when there is no identified threat inside the building, but access to and from the building remains restricted while law enforcement continues to investigate or address activity outside the school. Teaching and learning activities may continue during this status.

I arrived at Bedford Middle School just before 11:00 a.m. I remained with the building administration and emergency response team for the duration of the incident.

After the lockdown was lifted, I walked throughout all 9 instructional pods. Along with the Bedford administrative team, I had the opportunity to observe classrooms, speak with staff, and interact with students across the building.

Students demonstrated resilience, maturity and cooperation throughout an extraordinarily stressful situation. Teachers and staff provided exactly what students needed: calm, reassurance, consistency and care.

Our mental health support team was available throughout the day to support students, recognizing that some were understandably affected by the events of the morning. These resources will remain available tomorrow and in the days ahead for any student who may need additional assistance processing today’s events. We encourage students and families to reach out if support would be helpful.

In accordance with our guidance to faculty, many classrooms shifted their focus toward community-building conversations, reflection, and relationship-building activities. The professionalism and compassion displayed by our staff helped restore a sense of normalcy and security for students.

At 3:30, Bedford faculty and administration met to conduct an initial debrief of the day’s events. In the coming days, Westport Public Schools and the Westport Police Department will conduct a more comprehensive after-action review to evaluate our response, identify lessons learned, and continue strengthening our emergency preparedness efforts.

I want to express my sincere gratitude to the Westport Police Department for their leadership and professionalism throughout the incident. We are also deeply appreciative of the support provided by emergency responders from Fairfield, Norwalk, Stamford, the State Police and our many regional partners who assisted today.

Most importantly, I want to thank our students, faculty, staff and families. While today’s events were unsettling, our school community responded with patience, trust, and cooperation. The effectiveness of any safety response depends upon people working together, and today that partnership was evident throughout our community.

The investigation into the source of the call remains active and is being handled by the Westport Police Department.

While we hope never to experience an incident such as this, today demonstrated the strength of our emergency procedures, the professionalism of our staff, the partnership of our law enforcement agencies.

Thank you for your continued support and trust.

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[UPDATE] Lockdown Lifted At Bedford Middle School

Posted on June 8, 2026 | 4 comments

UPDATE: A similar swatting incident was reported early this afternoon at Greens Farms Academy. The campus has been evacuated, though classes have already finished for the academic year.

A “swatting” incident disrupted Bedford Middle — and nearby Staples High School — this morning.

“Swatting” is a malicious hoax emergency call about a violent crime or explosive device. The fake report sends multiple first responders to a location. Sometimes it is an ill-advised prank; others times it is a diversionary tactic, diverting law enforcement from another crime.

The BMS call was received at 10:32 a.m. The caller said that explosive devices had been placed inside the school, and armed individuals were inside.

There were multiple swatting reports this morning, all across Connecticut.

The school was locked down. Parents were asked to not go there, so first responders could act efficiently and quickly.

Westport Police and the Westport Public Schools responded with all necessary precautions, to investigate and secure BMS. They were assisted by officers and canine units from Fairfield, Norwalk and the Connecticut State Police. The Stamford Police Department’s Bomb Squad conducted sweeps and searches of the premises.

Bedford Middle School. The Staples football field can be seen at the top right. (Drone photo/Brandon Malin)

A “shelter in place” order was issued for Staples, just down the hill from Bedford, out of an abundance of caution. Classes continued, but entering and exiting the building was prohibited.

The lockdown at Bedford was lifted at 11:57 a.m., after a thorough investigation of the building.

A modified schedule was adopted for the rest of the day

Superintendent of schools Thomas Scarice said, “While instruction may continue as appropriate, faculty are encouraged to prioritize activities that help students feel safe, connected and regulated.

“Community-building conversations, opportunities for reflection, stress-management strategies, relationship-building activities, and any activities that create space for students to process the day are encouraged.

“I want to thank our first responders team, led by the Westport Police Department, in addition to the support provided by police and emergency responders from Fairfield, Norwalk, Stamford and the State Police, for their actions in helping us resolve ”

He promised a more comprehensive report later today.

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“Then & Now”: #16

Posted on June 8, 2026 | 23 comments

This week, Dave Matlow’s photographic chronicle of Westport’s homes — those that were demolished, and the ones that replaced them — takes him to what was once called “Westfair Village.”

One of the town’s earliest post-war developments, off Bulkley Avenue North and behind Westfair Shopping Center, it’s a tight-knit neighborhood with smaller-than-Westport-average lots.

During its near-80-year history, it’s seen many generational turnovers. Today — once again — it’s filled with families with young children.

Three homes from that neighborhood are featured today. The fourth — Blue Coat Lane — is off North Avenue, near Bedford Middle School.

Hunting Lane, April 2017 …

… and June 2026.

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Westfair Drive, December 2012 …

… and June 2026.

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Dexter Road, January 2005 …

… and June 2026.

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Blue Coat Lane, February 2014 …

… and June 2026.

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Roundup: Scholar-Athletes, Staples & Challenger Baseball, Ann Patchett …

Posted on June 8, 2026 | Leave a comment

Forty seniors were honored yesterday, at Staples High School’s 25th annual Scholar-Athlete dinner.

The coach of each varsity sport nominates one person, who also excels in the classroom. In a unique format at the ceremony, each answers one question about his or academic, athletic or extracurricular life. Individually, each is special. Taken together, they paint a robust picture of several dozen remarkable teenagers.

The scholar-athletes for the fall season are: Sofia Gomez (cheer), Harrison Sydor (boys cross country), Sarah Bogdan (girls cross country), Catherine Cirasuolo (field hockey), Justin Halky (football), Gus Palmer (boys golf), Gabe Hellmann (boy soccer), Isabelle Wasserman (girls soccer), Isabella Wasserman (girls swim & dive), Naalie Sipsma (girls volleyball), Brady Nahmias (boys water polo).

The winter scholar-athletes are: Oliver Vynerib (boys basketball), Emma Asiel (girls basketball), Katelynn Mitchell (cheer), Nathaniel Armstrong (fencing), Mia Cochran (gymnastics), Uzi Greenman (boys ice hockey), Jade Reejhsinghani (girls ice hockey), Rahan Sekhar (boys indoor track & field), Taylor Black (girls indoor track & Field), Chase Cammeyer (boys skiing), Alexis Robinson (girls skiing), Aiden Hill (boys squash), Olivia Cohn (girls squash), Nolan Franics (boys swim & dive). Kai Schwartz (wrestling).

Spring scholar-athletes are: Connor Brill (baseball), Riley Sklar (girls golf), Aidan Lapatine (boys lacrosse), Sadie Lowe (girls lacrosse), Gray McGuinness (boys outdoor track & field), Lila Boroujerdi (girls outdoor track & field), Michael Wang (boys rugby), Mia Chatterjee (girls rugby), Zach Gillman (sailing), Olivia Schwartz (softball), Robert Jacob (boys tennis), Devyn Peffer (girls tennis), Gabriel Schorer (boys volleyball), Olivia Kuliga (girls water polo).

Also honored were Oliver Samuel (Thomas DeHuff Award), Taylor Block (Jinny Parker Award) and Dylan Lehrer (Junior Leadership Award).

Taylor Block also earned the $10,000 Laddie Lawrence Scholarship, while Gabe Duque received the $10,000 Coleman Brothers and $2,000 Loeffler Scholarships.

Athletic director VJ Sarullo cited Bill Mitchell, the longtime Westporter and co-owner of Mitchells Stores, for his role in inaugurating the Scholar-Athlete dinner 25 years ago.

Bill Mitchell (left), who helped create Staples’ Scholar-Athlete dinner 25 years ago, is honored by athletic director VJ Sarullo. (Photo/Dan Woog)

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The Staples baseball team are winners — in many ways.

On Saturday they thrashed Norwalk 13-2, in the state tournament quarterfinal. They’ll face Fairfield Ludlowe tomorrow (Tuesday, 3:30 p.m., Municipal Field, Waterbury) in the “LL” (extra large schools) semifinal.

Yesterday — less than 24 hours after their big win, and just a few hours after the senior prom — the entire Wrecker squad headed to Meyer Field.

They buddied up with the Westport Winners — the Little League program for youngsters with disabilities. They enjoyed baseball, a barbecue — and a chance to hang out with some of their youngest, and most rabid, fans.

Play ball! Staples Wreckers, and Staples Winners. (Photo/Beth Cody)

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With primary elections near, and the general election just a few months away, the Westport League of Women Voters offers a program on our town’s electoral process.

On June 10 (2:30 to 3:30 p.m., Senior Center), registrars of voters Deborah Greenberg and Marie Signore provide the inside story on how they prepare for and run the process; results of the last election, including an election audit and recount results; how early voting is working, and the August primaries and fall elections.

Attendees can also learn what’s required to set up the polls, the training needed — and how to volunteer.

(Photo/Mark Mathias)

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Over 250 customers in the Juniper Road area lost power last night around 9:30 p.m., due to downed tree limbs.

Power was restored in the early morning hours. (Hat tip: Mark Mathias)

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Francoise Jaffe writes: “Westport has found its way into Ann Patchett’s new and (most probably future bestselling) novel ‘Whistler.’ 

“At one point, 2 of the characters go on a sailing jaunt out of Darien. The following dialogue ensues:

“‘Where did you go?’ Polly asked.

“‘Westport!’ Eddie said. ‘A pretty town to see from the sea.’

“‘Made all the better for not needing to find a parking space,’ Skip said.

“Polly agreed. ‘There is no parking in Westport.'”

“Ann Patchett hails from Nashville these days. But obviously, our town’s limitations have made quite the impression.

“I wonder if our town leaders will be moved enough now to proceed with a plan?”

Ann Patchett knows Westport.

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Westport Pride invites the Westport community — LGBTQ, allies and friends — to its annual Pride celebration this Sunday (June 14, 12 noon, Jesup Green).

The family-friendly event includes live music, food trucks, local artisan vendors and information booths. Let your colors shine!

Rainbow colors are encouraged, but not required. (Photo/Dan Woog)

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Hot on the heels of the Staples Pops concert, the Levitt Pavilion offered a special ’80s show Saturday, with Rubix Kube.

The large crowd walked on sunshine — even when a sudden rain came through.

June features 13 free shows — part of the entire season’s 50+ freebies.

There are paid ticket shows too. And the word on that street is the very special guests will join Lucius on June 20. Click here for the full schedule, details, and ticket information.

A sampling of June acts at the Levitt Pavilion.

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The Museum of Contemporary Art\Connecticut closed out its “Art, Jazz + The Blues” exhibit Saturday night, in appropriate fashion.

A packed house enjoyed a jubilant performance by Grammy Award-winning bassist and bandleader Endea Owens + The Cookout.

Owens — famous for his “Late Show with Stephen Colbert” work — brought warmth and artistry to the stage, alongside with special guest powerhouse Brianna Thomas, and a jazzy backing band, The Cookout.

Endea Owens and The Cookout, at MoCA\CT. (Photo/Roger Young)

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We don’t keep count of how often any particular creature appears in our daily “Westport … Naturally” feature.

Deer and dogs must be right up there.

But egrets can’t be far behind. This graceful bird was spotted on Nyala Farms Road:

(Photo/Ed Simek)

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And finally … on this date in 1949, George Orwell published “1984.”

So, speaking of visions of the future:

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[OPINION] Special Ed: We Can Do Better Together

Posted on June 8, 2026 | 13 comments

Namhee Stokvis is the mother of 2 children. She moved to Westport 2 years ago from New Jersey, in large part because of the school’s special education program. She writes:   

My son is 11 years old, and requires round-the-clock support. He is greatly impacted by the adults who guide him.

Since he entered public education at age 3, his communication, socialization and learning skills declined significantly. At age 5, within just 2 months he came home with 2 ripped jackets, a torn backpack, and tears in his eyes.

We raised concerns, offered strategies, and asked for collaboration. Instead, we were dismissed or minimized. The dominant tone was, “You are a hot parent” (their actual language), “and we are the experts who know better.”

Namhee Stokvis

In 2021, without our agreement, the district moved our son to a different classroom and changed his program. When we discovered this, the response was simply “exercise your rights,” a phrase that made clear nothing would change unless we pursued legal action.

We were frightened and confused. We had worked collaboratively through COVID, and believed partnership was possible. But from that moment on, what we encountered was nonchalance, ignorance and deception.

We met other parents experiencing similar problems, but most were too afraid to confront the district directly. They feared retribution. They kept their struggles private. We felt completely alone. Every day became painful and unbearable.

We began searching for a better place — somewhere our son could be safe and supported. After years of comparing districts, we chose Westport. We sold our home, and left everything we had built.

When we arrived in the summer of 2024, the district contacted us within days. We took that as a good sign.

And when we met our son’s new child study team, we felt something we had not felt in years: relief. Every teacher, therapist, paraprofessional and administrator treated our son with care and professionalism.

For the first time in a long time, my husband and I could focus on our work without worrying whether our son was safe or respected. He adjusted quickly, something that surprised us given his history. Our gratitude for Westport grew with each passing month.

But as we approached the one year mark, my worries returned.

Once my son’s adjustment and well-being were established, I began advocating for his education. I noticed that most decisions were already made before I entered the room. My role was often to be informed, not to make decisions.

When I requested an expert observation, it was denied. When I asked to observe my son myself, I was allowed 30 minutes in an isolated room — nowhere near the environment where he learns, plays and struggles.

I found myself worrying: If I advocate more strongly, will we still be treated collaboratively? If I raise concerns about the academic program, will I be ignored or misled? Will the same patterns that traumatized us in New Jersey repeat themselves here?

I am too afraid to test that boundary.

This year, during a community discussion at the Westport Library, I met parents who described the exact problems I experienced in New Jersey: ignorance, defensiveness, and dismissive narratives about families who speak up.

Narratives like “those parents are crazy,” “we are perfectly professional,” and “sue us if you don’t like it.”

It feels like the nightmare is returning. Sleepless nights, financial strain, and the emotional toll of simply trying to do right by my child.

I ran from New Jersey, believing Westport would be a safe place. Are we safe here?

Screenshot from Westport Public Schools’ special education page.

When a district denies and minimizes issues to avoid accountability, we lose our space to have honest conversations. And when parents are pushed toward legal battles, we are at an inherent disadvantage.

No parent has more financial power than a school district (unless you are Elon Musk or Jeff Bezos). And even when parents “win,” children still lose. The critical time for intervention passes. Opportunities to learn and grow disappear while we fight.

So, what are we doing?

A story last month on “06880” (“Special Ed: Solicit Feedback; Prioritize Student Progress Over Legal Proceedings“) shows that Westport’s legal expenditures in special education far exceed those of surrounding towns.

That alarms us. It suggests that problems are being handled through conflict rather than collaboration, consuming time and resources that should be utilized for our children.

Some parents are scared. Others are already suffering, just as I once was.

We chose Westport because we believed it is a better place for our family. And in so many ways, it truly is. The dedication of teachers and professionals here is extraordinary. I bow to their daily devotion. The richness of this town, its food, art, music and people, has made us feel welcomed and grateful.

But we can do better in how we handle conflicts and communications in special education.

When we improve the way we resolve disagreements, everyone benefits.

Students gain stronger outcomes. Teachers feel supported and confident. The district’s reputation grows. And children who rely on us the most receive the timely interventions and education they desperately need.

This is not about blaming. It is about responsibility and courage. It is about refusing to let fear, defensiveness, or bureaucracy stand in the way of our children’s future.

Let’s do better together.

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Pics Of The Day #3336

Posted on June 7, 2026 | Leave a comment

Rain approaches today, at Compo Beach … (Jonathan Rosenoer)

… and this afternoon’s surprise 5-minute cloudburst on Main Street (Photos/Jonathan Alloy)

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Photo Challenge #597

Posted on June 7, 2026 | 25 comments

Two decorative spheres — one on each side of the entrance road — greet visitors to Longshore (or “Longshore Club Park,” as no one except town officials call it).

One of them was the subject of last week’s Photo Challenge (click here to see).

It was an easy one. Seth Schachter, Diane Silfen, Brian Taylor, Jonathan McClure, Ed Creevy, Lynn Untermeyer Miller, Michael Szeto, John McKinney, Pat Saviano, Matt McGrath, Amy Schneider, Seth Braunstein, Andrew Colabella and Tom Feeley all checked in quickly with the right answer.

FUN FACT: For decades, a pair of small “foo dogs” (also known as “Chinese guardian lions”) sat behind the marble globes. How and why they go there were mysteries, but the few folks who noticed them always wondered.

In 2022 (or perhaps earlier), they disappeared. They’ve never been seen again. Click here for that “06880” story.

There’s no great back story behind today’s Photo Challenge. But if you know where in Westport you’d see this, click “Comments” below.

(Photo/Bruce McFadden)

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